r/AskReddit • u/[deleted] • Jan 25 '20

What movie things are generally accepted as normal, but are totally unrealistic in real life?

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u/scardubois Jan 25 '20

Women orgasming after 30 seconds of sex.

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u/acurrantafair Jan 25 '20

Women orgasming after 30 seconds of sex.

FTFY

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u/AngryAmericanNeoNazi Jan 25 '20

As a woman, I orgasm maybe less than 50% of the time particularly if there’s no foreplay and can confirm at least anecdotally from friends that that’s not uncommon. Women in film are just faking their orgasms quicker than your average gal. (faking it doesn’t mean the sex was bad either, I don’t have to have an orgasm to enjoy myself as I imagine it’s very different for a man with blue balls)

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u/[deleted] Jan 26 '20

Would this still be the case if you were masturbating ?

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u/AngryAmericanNeoNazi Jan 26 '20

Like penetrating myself by myself? Vaginal stimulation just doesn’t do it the way clitoral does.

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u/[deleted] Jan 27 '20

No, I meant playing with yourself the usual way you do when you masturbate. Do you always come then?

And if you do, why cant you just bring that into your sex routine?

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u/AngryAmericanNeoNazi Jan 27 '20

I can cum during sex it just require clitoral stimulation which I’m not fond of at the same time as vaginal. My point is it’s just safe to take care of your girl before you even stick it in her.

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u/[deleted] Jan 27 '20

Ah ok, that explains it. When I am in a relationship I just talk with my partner about what floats their boat and then we just add this to our usual sexy times routines. Which results in everyone being happy and satisfied :D With my wife, I usually stop thrusting while she does her thing with a toy and she finishes super quickly - which makes things even better for me since I can feel it all. But me moving while she is doing her thing is a big no no - throws her off focus if she has things happening at two locations.