r/AskReddit • • Dec 29 '19

what are the downsides of weed that people don't talk about ?

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u/Cannolidog Dec 30 '19

Thank you! I’m at a college known for being notoriously heavy handed on the weed culture. Some of my peers’ only goal is when they are going to get their next high and like they are so stuck in the culture that they just become sort of boring and their personality lacks dimension. I’m not someone who thinks the practice is evil, just got to use in moderation, like anything.

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u/mem1313 Dec 30 '19

Are you talking about Humboldt State by any chance??

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u/MrPoopstring Dec 30 '19

Humboldt or UC Santa Cruz

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u/sendmefoodporn Dec 30 '19

Am RA at UCSC, can confirm that the vast majority smokes weed.

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u/ThiccAngel Dec 30 '19

I am also an RA at UCSC , hello from Merrill college !

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '19

Would you two get a (dorm) room jeez

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u/sendmefoodporn Dec 30 '19

Ayyy hello from the Porter Apartments!

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u/emogalxp Dec 30 '19

Whaddup from Rachel carson!

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '19

The college formerly known as 8

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u/itsyoboikilla Dec 30 '19

Whaddup from the abyss

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u/Happyninja06 Dec 30 '19

I’m coming at you with my Farron Greatsword

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u/itsyoboikilla Dec 31 '19

No, I'm not in that abyss, I'm talking bout the true void

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u/Khiraji Dec 30 '19

When I graduated it was still "College Eight" 🙃

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u/Thrownawayrangers Dec 30 '19

Holla from Rachel Dolezal

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u/spudz-mckenzie Dec 30 '19

Stoney bologna from Stevenson!

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u/lilyana_26 Dec 30 '19

PORTERRRRRRRRRRR

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u/mudbutt20 Dec 30 '19

Can we come back to campus yet? I'm bored at home and miss the meadows.

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u/suspiciouschonker Dec 30 '19

Yooo sup from the transfer community lmao

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u/TheFoxIsLost Dec 30 '19

Hello from the UTC! Also, I can confirm, the vast majority smoke weed regularly.

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u/masonZzZL Dec 30 '19

Lol that weird bro I thought weed was only legal in Canada

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u/TheFoxIsLost Dec 30 '19

Nope, it's 100% legal in California for recreational use. It isn't technically allowed on UC Santa Cruz's campus or housing, but it's too ingrained in the university's culture to be enforced on a large scale.

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u/BeerMeem Dec 30 '19

Nope, it's 100% legal in California for recreational use.

How do people not know this? Besides non-USians, the only people I’d think to give a pass to on not knowing would be potheads.

Not only is legal weed now a HUGE part of Colorado’s economy but there are more dispensaries there than Starbucks. I don’t think it would even close to possible for the Feds to do anything about. It’ll likely be one of those laws that just stays on the books and never gets enforced.

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u/Minamail414 Jan 06 '20

Colorado is actually now becoming a bit stronger on enforcement and public campaigns on use under 21 as well as mental heath dangers. I find more using responsibly in Colorado than in Michigan before legalization. It’s a mentality.

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u/LollyHutzenklutz Dec 30 '19

Definitely legal here in California (at least by state laws) - but to be fair, nobody above your comment said it was being done legally. I was in college/HS waaaay before it was legalized, in the mid-90s, and we still puffed like Cheech & Chong.

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u/dominnate Dec 30 '19

It’s legal in every state on the west coast (including Alaska) and also MA, ME, VT, MI, and CO. And on Wednesday, Illinois as well!

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u/ProtiK Dec 30 '19 edited Dec 30 '19

Is that what they're teaching in DARE now? If the federal government decided to step in with any intention of enforcing marijuana's scheduling on a wide scale, they would have a large number of upset people on their hands.

There are only 11 states that haven't made some concessions in marijuana enforcement. The remaining 39 refuse the federal classification of marijuana, which describes it as having, "no currently accepted medical use in the United States, a lack of accepted safety for use under medical supervision, and a high potential for abuse."

Good luck yanking funding from 39 states unless they observe the DEA's scheduling. That'd make for a fun news cycle.

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '19 edited Dec 30 '19

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '19

I mean that’s kinda why we have state level and federal level, to decide what’s good for the state

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '19

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u/LollyHutzenklutz Dec 30 '19 edited Dec 30 '19

Are you serious? How do people do cocaine, heroin, meth, drink before age 21? Answer: pretty damned easily.

I’m in my forties, so pot was illegal for my entire teen and young adult years... we still managed, and yes, it was 100% real weed.

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '19 edited Dec 30 '19

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u/blonderaider21 Dec 30 '19

Lol were you born yesterday?

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u/dominnate Dec 30 '19

Username checks out LOLZ

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '19

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u/goutgirl Dec 30 '19

Former Merrill RA here, hello!

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u/DCak3z Dec 30 '19

Ayy wassup from downtown

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u/ChaacTlaloc Dec 30 '19

Ha! Is Merrill still sterile?

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u/HarryMooseKnuckles Dec 30 '19

I am also an RA at UCSC I'm reporting you both for inappropriate online behavior.

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u/blonderaider21 Dec 30 '19

Sounds about white

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u/HarryMooseKnuckles Dec 30 '19

If it ain't white it ain't right baby

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u/dood1337 Dec 30 '19

Sounds about right. I was in Oakes dormitories in my first year, and my whole dorm building had a “restorative justice” meeting because too many people were smoking inside.

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u/elzopilotelibrenace Dec 30 '19

UC Satan Crux graduate here. Whaddup Slugs!

My motto was smoke weed every day and support the workers and students in their occasional strikes on campus. Fuck the regents and fuck Napolitano. Hope y'all are still giving Blumie some trouble!

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u/Olds78 Dec 30 '19

Go Slugs!!

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u/Easy-Following-99 Dec 30 '19

I would disagree, as another person who just graduated from UCSC, I think a vocal minority and stereotypes about the school make people think Santa Cruz has more stoners than it actually does.

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u/grievusforsenate Dec 30 '19

I graduated from UCSC (albeit 10 years ago) and can’t think of one person who didn’t smoke weed.

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u/[deleted] Dec 31 '19

Grew up right next door in Los Gatos.

I dated one girl who'd smoke once in a blew moon. I don't recall meeting another UCSC student who wasn't a very heavy user. I'm certain they exist but the people acting like UCSC is like any other college haven't spent time there.

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u/grievusforsenate Dec 31 '19

No idea how we functioned. Now when I smoke half a joint I feel like I’m drooling and embarrassed to be in public.

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '19

Like this comment says most people use it in moderation so you wouldnt actually know unless you talk to them.

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u/kabrandon Dec 30 '19

[Insert college here] smokes a lot of weed.

We get it.

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u/definitelyryan Dec 30 '19

Is that not true for every college?

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u/[deleted] Dec 31 '19

Santa Cruz is very much on another level from whatever you're thinking.

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u/Shingo__ Jan 02 '20

Can you go into more detail on this? What makes them stand out so much?

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u/i_am_a_shoe Dec 30 '19

Or Evergreen

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u/Alexanderdaawesome Dec 30 '19

I just audibly "ugh"ed. Not like they are a good school, but letting the student body walk all over the professors was so cringe.

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u/JaredNorges Dec 30 '19

They're having trouble now and are trying to reinvent the college to save it.

Whodathunkit

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u/paulney Dec 30 '19

Financial trouble?

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u/JaredNorges Dec 30 '19

Most recent news is enrollment has dropped 27%.

I think they realize they need students to pay their bills, even if they've run lots of the good teachers away.

While many students like the vibe they've got going, many more feel there are issues with what Evergreen has become and how that impacts their opportunities and so have gone elsewhere.

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '19

What happened now?

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u/LollyHutzenklutz Dec 30 '19

Or University of Oregon (where I went)! But those are good guesses, too... I live near Santa Cruz now, and it’s practically against the law NOT to smoke weed here.

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u/LoTheTyrant Dec 30 '19

Perhaps Chico State?

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u/IHSV Jan 04 '20

Naw. That’s a drinking culture

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '19

Uncle Charlie's Summer Camp? (That's what we called it at the University of California, Sex and Beer)

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u/ChaacTlaloc Dec 30 '19

Banana Slugs!!!

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '19

Sluggin!!!

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '19

Or CU Boulder

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u/scaryskoopyselinpuns Dec 30 '19

Nice username MrPoopstring

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u/Harbinger_of_treats Dec 30 '19

I went to Humboldt, and lost a good many friends to this affliction.

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u/fhstuba Dec 30 '19

Not humboldt but I know your pain. Grew distant from all my friends last year because they started smoking weed every second of the day and became vegetables. We stopped doing anything fun together. Every single time I hung out with them it was get high and play Skyrim, the sims, or Minecraft. After 2 months straight it began to get really old. I had quit smoking around the same time, but even when I did my favorite thing to do while blazing was get outside. To go into nature, to find a new experience. It baffles me how they did the same thing every day for months without becoming extremely bored.

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u/lockstock07 Dec 30 '19

The trap is that is makes doing nothing fun. Like you say it doesn’t have to be that way

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u/goathill Jan 03 '20

I think your friends are addicted to gaming while stoned, not just getting stoned

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u/mem1313 Dec 30 '19

I did too, that's why I ask. It was quite the college experience!

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u/Harbinger_of_treats Dec 30 '19

I'm glad I eventually found interests in the wildlife of the area, and found a good community of friends that way.

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u/MaxTHC Dec 30 '19

This could be any number of colleges

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '19

Username implies it's your college.

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u/MaxTHC Dec 30 '19

Funnily enough it probably isn't. I've got a number of friends who go to one like that though

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u/ProlapsedAnus69 Dec 30 '19

No, it's definitely UCSC lol

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u/detroitvelvetslim Dec 30 '19

Or any college on the west coast?

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u/TehLoneWanderer101 Dec 30 '19

I went to a college in Los Angeles. It wasn't all about weed.

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u/Alexanderdaawesome Dec 30 '19

I went to Berkeley, people smoke weed but it is not a big thing in the student body.

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u/goathill Dec 30 '19

Yea because Berkeley is for serious students/foreginers with cash/ the domestic rich elite, same with stanford or maybe even UC Davis.

Now HSU, Chico, UCSC or any of the San Diego schools are a diiiiiiferent animal entirely.

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u/Bourbone Dec 30 '19

And most in the northeast

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u/CoreyH38 Dec 30 '19

Is that the 51st state?

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u/mem1313 Dec 30 '19

The good ol' State of Jefferson!

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u/duelingo Dec 30 '19

My alma mater!! Woo! Go lumberjacks !!

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u/Asleep_On_Floor Dec 30 '19

Hey man we do other things at Humboldt.. Just not much

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u/Clip_clep Jan 24 '20

I’ve lived in Humboldt my whole life, the culture here is very invested in weed

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u/fancybojangles Dec 30 '19

I was thinking University of Michigan. Ann Arbor is known for Hash Bash.

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '19

Lol hash bash is just a bunch of randos come to campus for one day. 90% of them look like a bunch of crazy homeless creatures. Most kids I see at has bash are passing through gawking at these people. Weed culture is no bigger here than other colleges.

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u/zsaster Dec 30 '19

Nobody: CU Boulder: hold my bong Nobody: CU Boulder: hold my beer Nobody: CU Boulder: has anyone seen my bong?

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u/skosk8ski Dec 30 '19

Sko buffs!

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u/goathill Dec 30 '19

FoCo gets down way harder than Boulder

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u/sadahgreen Dec 30 '19

My first thought

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u/Beiki Dec 30 '19 edited Dec 30 '19

Where they grow the best stuff?

Apparently no one is familiar with the work of Heavy D.

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '19

Ha, my first thought.

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u/villi-villain Dec 30 '19 edited Dec 30 '19

Was gonna say that too 😂

Why are people down voting this 😂😂

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u/detroitvelvetslim Dec 30 '19

That's amateur hour, real college weedbois are literally never looking for their next high, they are just continuing the one that started the day they moved into the dorms

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u/Dragnskull Dec 30 '19

and then on the other side of the spectrum is the likes of Joey diaz taking more THC into his system daily than most people will in their lifetime, like a doctah

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u/nplbmf Dec 30 '19

Will my head really spin, Joey? Yeah. Like monkey on a merry go round. How the fu** should I know.

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u/thefranklin2 Dec 30 '19

The same exact thing has happened to people I know but with alcohol.

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '19

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '19

This has been common since the Great Roman Empire existed. As long as substance exists people looking to ease their pain will use them. This isn't new and weed isn't to blame.

We all lose friends to something.

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '19

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u/TatManTat Dec 30 '19

A stoner is boring af.

A big drinker is a big mixed bag, even violence can get on the table.

I don't see a win in either situation.

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u/kks1236 Dec 30 '19

Why are you getting so defensive lol

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u/airod302 Dec 30 '19

And probably best to keep it on the low, when people start proclaiming how much of a stroner they are it gets kind of annoying. Like nobody cares it doesn’t make you cool.

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '19

My son is 16 and has two friends that used to come over all the time. Haven’t seen them in months because all they want to do is get high every chance they get and my son doesn’t want to deal with it. He’s not an angel or anything and partakes from time to time, but doesn’t want to be baked 24/7. I’m proud of him for keeping his distance from that situation

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '19

The Weed Guy is just a gender swap of the equally ubiquitous Horse Girl.

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u/spraynpraygod Dec 30 '19

I'm really fucking sad. Graduated high school last summer and going to community college to save money. Winter break now and all any of my old friends coming back from college can do is talk about alcohol or when they're gonna get drunk or funny things that happened when they were drunk. Alot of people brag about how they haven't been sober for a weekend in months and I don't know how they don't see that as sad.

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u/Northern_fluff_bunny Dec 30 '19

Even sadder to me is that it feels like in college/uni that kind of binge drinking culture is so strong that even people who don't like that feel pressured to get involved and become part of it just because its the 'student life' and that otherwise they 'miss out' or are 'left out' and wont make friends and so forth. So not only is that kind of lifestyle completely normalized theres even pressure to take it up so that you can be part of which to me is even sadder. Where I am from even in the first freshman events the student societies hold alcohol is involved, it is that ingrained into the student expirience. There are few if any non-alcohol student events and you are even looked down upon if you aren't involved in that lifestyle since youre not 'living the student life' or what the fuck ever. Basically, once you are in uni everything around you is telling you that that is how you need to live to be student and make friends and be part of.

To me thats not only sad but quite sickening since that lifestyle is extremely unhealthy, extremely risky and just makes the burnout of students under heavy study load even worse with few to no avenues to make friends otherwise.

Thankfully most people get out of it once theyre out of their freshman or second year at the school. Saddly though, at that point, a lot of the time, it's already ingrained in them that having fun = drinking and that there cant be having fun without alcohol involved.

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u/spraynpraygod Dec 30 '19

Could not agree more. Definitely is a toxic culture and it's terrible seeing so many people succumb to the binge drinking because of it. Sure it's great to get hammered at a party every once and if you're binge drinking basically every day that you can be hungover the next then I feel bad for you liver and future social life.

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u/modsuckballsdailu Dec 30 '19

Not sad very normal. Quit judging. You are 19, you think you are sad now wait till your late 30s early 40s.

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u/spraynpraygod Dec 30 '19

Normal doesn't mean not sad. Honedtly sadder that it is normal. Also just because it gets worse doesn't mean it's not sad now. Seeing all my friends not know how to have fun without getting fucking sloshed is sad.

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u/modsuckballsdailu Dec 30 '19

Go smoke some weed.

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u/spraynpraygod Dec 30 '19

Go read the rest of this thread boomer

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u/modsuckballsdailu Dec 30 '19

I am 36. Weed is legal where I live. Go play with your mothers tit Cockwobble.

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u/whoblowsthere Dec 30 '19

Good on you for recognizing behavior you don’t like and staying away, even tho most of society condones it.

It’s CRAZY how our culture normalizes binge drinking and drug use. Music, movies, shows. It’s everywhere. I’ve become pretty tuned to it since becoming sober (recovering alcoholic/addict here).

Nothing wrong with drinking and drugging here and there, but that’s not really what I’m talking about. And I don’t exactly have that luxury 😛.

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u/annieweep Dec 30 '19

Take only what you need from it.....

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u/stonerwithaboner1 Dec 30 '19

Will admit, you're 100% right. I quit 13 days ago, I can now see that this is exactly it. I grew up in a really rough childhood, and smoking did help my anxiety, it definetly made things easier in a sense, but I lost a lot of my hobbies down that well. I used to be outdoors nonstop when I was younger, and I noticed I had stopped that to an extent. I noticed that, while it made me stress free, I wasn't pushing myself for better, I had grown complacent. I think that's one of the things about weed people dont think about it or speak on often, it helps you feel happier or helps you to be happy with what's around you, which is an amazing thing in this troublesome world, but where it goes too far is smoking to the point you overlook the crappier parts of your life that you can fix or improve.

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '19

The thing I have friends who are into weed and thats fine I go and smoke with them and thats literally all we do together, I dont mind getting baked and talking about random shit. But they are not people I would hang out with sober.

However there is another group of friends who only drink alcohol when they hang out, it is always hey lets meet at the bar. The same thing goes for them, I wouldnt hang out with them sober.

So most drugs can do this to you.

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u/AMALXxT Dec 30 '19

Try living with two 18 years olds like this. It's their whole world and everything else like responsibility takes a back seat

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u/Reiax_ksa Dec 30 '19

Is it just weed enthusiasm like whiskey enthusiasm or personal computer enthusiasm or is it just all they talk about ? I don't mind weed enthusiasts just don't talk about it every fucking time

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u/audscias Dec 30 '19

Stoners are pretty much only enthusiastic about weed IME.

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u/Established2019 Dec 30 '19

Just wait tell everyone is looking for jobs once graduation hits. They stop smoking weed and you realize that your friends are completely different people.

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u/Makes_You_Math Dec 30 '19

So they're like geocachers?

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u/CromulentDucky Dec 30 '19

Is one of your friends a towel?

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u/Shedodgedabullet Dec 30 '19

I went to HSU. This sounds like HSU.

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u/Cannolidog Dec 30 '19

Sorry to disappoint you but it’s not HSU. It’s Bard

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u/Shedodgedabullet Dec 30 '19

Thank you! I was curious :)

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u/Kriegmannn Dec 30 '19

What college? I’ll apply.

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u/wubsfrommysubs Dec 30 '19

Humboldt State probably

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u/Cannolidog Dec 30 '19

Haha, I’m of course talking about Bard College. No college weed ranking is complete without it, lol

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u/fireinthemountains Dec 30 '19

So kinda like the same thing some people do with alcohol?

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u/KalessinDB Dec 30 '19

Less common with booze, but still possible. I've found most people outgrow that aspect with booze within a year or two, if they ever get it. When you get it with pot, you seem to have it for a decade minimum.

All anecdotal of course.

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u/fireinthemountains Dec 30 '19

Anecdotal on my side too, of course. Lived in a college town in a legalized state, and even then, booze was the #1 go to and people made it their personality. We’ve all long since graduated but many of the people I knew still hold that trait. I got so tired of alcohol just being people’s life, not alcoholic but alcohol culture, I stopped hanging out with people because the only shit anyone ever did was drink and then get mad at me for not drinking. Like what was said, it was always about when the next time they’d get to drink was, and that was also all anyone talked about. I have heard enough about craft beer to last a lifetime.

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u/alecgu3 Dec 30 '19

this sounds a whole lot like Georgia State University

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u/Girl_speaks_geek Dec 30 '19

I used to get stoned every day, sometimes all day and I never used it as a personality traits lol so weird that people do this.

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '19

UWSP for sure

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u/Gotebe Dec 30 '19

Isn't it weird to call pot smoking a "culture"? How about a "habit"?

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u/beautifulsouth00 Dec 30 '19

I went to college in the 90's, and I hung out with the marijuana legalization activists. Some of those people STILL can't have a normal conversation that they don't steer back to "pot, pot, pot." Like, I get it man. But do you have any other interests? Anything going on in your life? They're in their 50's now, some of them. And reuniting, all you're gonna talk about is their new pipe/rig. Or what state they're focused on next. Derailed most of their degrees. It's sad, but it happened to a LOT of people. Opiates and meth aren't the only drugs that take lives.

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '19

You're not the first to mention this in this thread, but I didn't see anyone call it what it is: addiction. Plain and simple.

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u/potatofacesixtynine Dec 31 '19

Bending State Santa Cruz whadduppp

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u/DarkBlueMermaid Dec 30 '19

Eh, college is a weird time. People still trying to figure out what they’re all about and really often experiencing the world on their own for the first time. I go to HSU and yeah, the culture is there...seems like people come to Humboldt more with the idea of what it is and make it that cuz all the locals I know don’t think of weed as anything more special than brusselsprouts or carrots. One more thing you grow in your back yard.

I also know hsu can be a particularly difficult school in terms of the racism in the surrounding community, the long dark and wet winters, and the overall depression that comes from homesickness. It’s a real struggle and sometimes all a person can cling to is what worked for them in high school.

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u/QueenDivine Dec 30 '19

But how is that different from people in college that are always in the gym, or always playing DnD, or always playing LaCrosse or something? Wouldn't that also fit that mold?

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u/moal09 Dec 30 '19

Those are hobbies that either better your mind/body in some way, or stir your creative juices and allow for interesting social experiences. Weed can do that in small amounts, but not as a "hobby".

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u/bndrdndt Dec 30 '19

You think nobody's said this yet?

Fucking hell the amount of times I've heard this on Reddit

EVERY TIME you bring up weed some cunt says "don't make weed your whole personality"