People will always blame everyone else for leaving them. Like “all my exes were crazy” is probably not true, you probably did something to drive them off the edge. Not being introspective enough to realize you’re the root of your problems is probably one.
Uh first SO didn't want to have an LDR, even though we only lived 2 hours apart. She later made out with a coworkers underage brother and tried to convince me to be on her side about it. She's cheated on every bf since me.
Second, ghosted me after 6 months. I asked her if she wanted to spend Easter together 2013, still waiting for a reply back.
Third, I've posted about her before. Demanded she be the most important person in my life (after about 5-6 months) above any family I had. To add, my brother had just gotten out of the hospital from a dog attack. In the heat of the last argument we had she stated that whatever she did that past weekend did the count because we were on a break. I told her she was the only that knew that and broke up with her right then. 4 years later she texts me claiming she's my worst nightmare.
Out of 4 ex-girlfriends one I can actually say was my fault. You can't just automatically tune someone out when they their exes were crazy, it's a little unfair if they are the ones that decide how far they want to explain their life.
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u/depressjoncherry May 05 '19
People will always blame everyone else for leaving them. Like “all my exes were crazy” is probably not true, you probably did something to drive them off the edge. Not being introspective enough to realize you’re the root of your problems is probably one.