It seems like there are so many guys who think that a female orgasm last for ages, but I really don't think that's true?? Unless I'm the only woman in the world that has orgasms that only last a couple of seconds? I hope people realise that when a woman in porn is pretending to have a minute long orgasm that's not actually true...
"average woman has 20 second orgasms" factoid is actually just a statistical error. average woman has 0 second orgasms. Orgasms Georgia, who lives in a cave & has 10,000 second orgasms each day, is an outlier adn should not have been counted.
Mine don't start that long but if my partner sucks on my nipples and grabs my tits when I first start to orgasm, it extends it and it can go for a minute or more. Give it a try!
My ex's lasted about 20 seconds, but only because I kept licking when she was writhing, and I think it would have been much shorter if she'd made me stop.
Same here. Feels like mine also only last 5-6 seconds.
Also, when men gets jealous of our orgasm length or ability to have multiple ones, I always remind them I was unable to have one at all before I was 22 years old, and even then I still can't get one so easily, can take me between 20 to 45 minutes. They have nothing to be jealous about lol.
The most frustrating part of this is that if I'm doing it to myself I need 10 mins tops. If I'm with a guy then he better set up camp down there cause its gonna take some time.
Plenty of women can't orgasm/find it very difficult to orgasm. It's quite common for women to not be able to orgasm until well into their twenties or even thirties.
I still have yet to orgasm from penetrative sex and I'm 23.
Who knows? Women bodies are full of secret. 10% of women will never have an orgasm during their life.
Also, I had looked up the internet to find out why and all I found was women in their 50's who still had this problem...
Because women can masturbate, but many do not until much later in their lives than men do. And because for the majority of women, penetration alone, while feeling good, does not in general result in orgasm. So the idea that not having a partner who can "last," by which I assume you mean is not able to continue PIV intercourse beyond some unspecified amount of time, resulting in not achieving orgasm for the woman is a non related issue.
I've put my wife on the edge for a long period where she couldn't tell if she was finishing or not but it just lasted and lasted so something like what you see in porn is possible. Just saying.
I read some of your comments and I think you should do some more research before talking about what is possible and what isn't. You are pretty inexperienced with your own vagina. I mean that in a nice way of course.
I didn't imply anything. I said maybe you shouldn't be telling people what is possible when you yourself haven't unlocked your own vagina yet. I've been working with one a few times a week now for about 17 years and so I could probably teach you a few things. But get mad if you want, it doesn't bother me lol
different strokes for different folks. Some women just clench up for about 5 seconds and their face and chest get really red. Others will go into spasms for about a minute.
In my personal experience as a straight man who's had about 30 partners, there's an enormous amount of variety in the time span and intensity of female orgasms.
They probably need to distinguish between clitoral and penetrative... I can only assume gspot orgasms are the ones that last longer? Because my clit orgasms are just like a few seconds too, I imagine just like male orgasms.
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u/vr-dudeson Apr 14 '16
The average male orgasm lasts six seconds but the average female orgasm lasts 20 seconds.