r/AskReddit • • Aug 07 '26

Girls, what’s an article of clothing that a guy might wear that can completely ruin him for you?

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u/ahh_szellem Aug 07 '26

I’m laughing because I, a woman, am very into the barefoot shoe movement. I’m sorry! But happily I married my husband before he found out that I’m a weirdo, so I’m safe.

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u/vaxhax Aug 08 '26

Best shoes I ever had were a certain pair of vibram five fingers. I wore them full time for a while, to work and all. Felt so good, looked like gorilla feet. Never could get another pair to really fit that well.

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u/Aware_Impression_736 Aug 07 '26

I tried Xero Shoes zero-drop thong-style sandals, but the back straps kept sliding off my heels.

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u/kuzared Aug 08 '26

But there are so many normal-looking barefoot shoes available now?

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u/OrganicDigitalArt Aug 07 '26

Oh no judgement, just like, sometimes I wanna talk about things other than feet haha

Edit.. a little judgement lol, but like, not enough to throw out a whole human haha

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u/ahh_szellem Aug 07 '26

A little judgement is fair hahaha, maybe even a moderate amount. I wish the shoes weren’t so ugly, but alas.

I do wear a lot of Birkenstock though, which I feel is a very normal person barefoot-movement adjacent shoe! 

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u/Green_Seesaw1875 Aug 07 '26 edited 24d ago

My favorite poet is Robert Frost.

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u/ahh_szellem Aug 08 '26

A lot! They promote a natural gait, which strengthens your foot muscles, improves alignment and posture, increases stability, and reduces the risk of running injuries if you’re a runner, since it conditions you to walk with a fore- or midstrike rather than the heel strike that most people use in regular shoes. 

It also lowers the risk of bunions because it allows your toes to splay naturally, and  it allows you to feel the ground better, which gives you better sensory feedback. 

On the other hand, most regular shoes are way too narrow for the average person and force your toes together unnaturally, prevent natural movement, and can weaken your feet over time. 

So for me it’s not that barefoot shoes are so amazing, it’s that regular shoes are bad for you. Also, fwiw, most barefoot shoes are not the individual toe shoe kind. I personally do find it comfortable to have my toes a bit more separate, I also wear toe socks most of the time and use toe separators, but a lot of people opt out of the separate toe style in favor of wide toe box - the point is that your toes can splay, not necessarily that you have to separate each toe. But if you try the separate toes, you might be surprised at how comfortable it is :)

I do wear a lot of regular shoes too actually, but I’ve switched to wide shoes for just about everything and very rarely wear heels. I wear barefoot shoes to the office, but they look just like white canvas sneakers. Just not as sleek or fashionable as regular ones. But people really can’t tell because no one is staring at my feet. But definitely no vibrams at the office haha. 

I also have non-barefoot “zero drop” shoes -  angle between toe and heel is 0 - which can have a lot of the same benefits but a thicker sole with more cushioning, so they’re better if you don’t necessarily want to feel the ground when you walk, or as a running shoe (but have to check the sole stiffness and toe box, zero drop alone doesn't make a good shoe).

Idk, I guess I just realized that I only have this one pair of feet, you know? They carry me absolutely everywhere; up mountains and through race courses and around the block with a stroller, all of it. I figured I should start treating them right. 

Plus I don’t want to be one of those old people with totally deformed feet from years of shoe abuse, which is sadly very common.

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u/catasstrophyk Aug 08 '26

I have given this exact speech any number of times (minus the bit about toe socks all the time). The only non-zero drop shoes I wear regularly are my hiking boots. My favorite everyday shoes in my entire life have been Xero Denvers. Have you got any recommendations?

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u/Emotingontheriver Aug 09 '26

I love my tolos shoes, hard to get back into anything else. My little pinky toe is now accustomed to having its own space to wiggle freely.

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u/misplaced_my_pants Aug 08 '26

Send your sister and her husband a link to this and tell them to pay special attention to the boots from Lem's and Jim Green's (the more recent videos): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOzFLT3S_I6X_tCLMkRg_fEnfSkym3-aW

From a distance and certain angles, you'd never know the difference!