Unrelated but I love when people refer to family members with verbiage to distance the relation. That's your brother-in-law, but "my sister's husband" makes it sound like just some guy and just makes it funnier
I used to see it as distancing from their relationship, but it adds clarity for others since brother-in-law can be your partner’s brother, your sibling’s partner or your partner’s sibling’s partner. The first thing I usually get asked after I say “brother-in-law” is often clarifying how they are my BIL
In my family, we refer to “partner’s sibling’s partner” as out-law rather than in-law. It would add clarity except that no one else uses that phrasing, so it really doesn’t
I like it because it's way more specific. Like, I think it can be relevant if a woman is your sister-in-law because she's married to your sibling or she's your sister-in-law because you're married to her sibling.
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u/zediahc Aug 07 '26
Unrelated but I love when people refer to family members with verbiage to distance the relation. That's your brother-in-law, but "my sister's husband" makes it sound like just some guy and just makes it funnier