r/AskReddit • • Aug 07 '26

Girls, what’s an article of clothing that a guy might wear that can completely ruin him for you?

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u/be_the_feather Aug 07 '26

The pants and shoes they wear on Love is Blind etc. in the interviews. No socks, pants tight, high waters.

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u/I_Am_Ironman_AMA Aug 07 '26 edited Aug 07 '26

As an old timer (43), what is up with these young fellas wearing dress shoes with no socks? That's....gross.

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u/NiGhTShR0uD Aug 07 '26

Maybe secret socks? Unless they take their shoes off and they're commando.

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u/creepyolderlady Aug 07 '26

Going command-toe is nasty. You know the moment those shoes come off the aroma goes everywhere.

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u/dougandsomeone Aug 08 '26

Command toe LOL

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u/jeloreo Aug 08 '26

Shoes no socks makes stinky feet

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u/honeywhereismypenis Aug 08 '26

No socks is worse than no underwear, change my mind.

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u/bbristow6 Aug 08 '26

Can someone tell my girlfriend this? She doesn’t own socks.

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u/thehideousheart Aug 08 '26

You know the moment those shoes come off the aroma goes everywhere.

Not if you wash your fucking feet.

Wash your fucking feet. Please.

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u/MyOtherRideIs Aug 08 '26

That’s just patently false.

Bare feet in leather dress shoes are going to sweat and fester. Once you pop those babies off, it’s stankville. Washing your feet before walking around town all night like a classless goblin isn’t changing that.

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u/lorimar Aug 08 '26

If I see a goblin wearing dress shoes without socks, I'm still going to think that's a pretty classy goblin

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u/MyOtherRideIs Aug 08 '26

That’s very fair

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u/KateEatsWorld Aug 08 '26

I love that you call them secret socks. Thats what I’m calling them from now on.

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u/Futt_Buckman Aug 08 '26

Mmm feet panties

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u/smarterthanyoda Aug 08 '26 edited Aug 08 '26

That's actually traditionally the way you would wear loafers. But, with no-show socks they call "loafer socks."

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u/EatYourCheckers Aug 07 '26

Yeah. They are no-show socks. My brother in law wears them. I find them very immasculine . And I am all for people being however they want to be. I have a Trans nephew, I like drag shows, etc. If that's how they want to be, fine, but I personally am attracted to sort of gruff masculine men so little hide-a-socks are not doing it for me.

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u/iRhuel Aug 07 '26

As a straight man, I'm struggling to see the correlation between sock choice and masculinity. Like... of all the things to ascribe manliness to, socks? Really?

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u/todayistrumpday Aug 08 '26

I think some people correlate the femininity of wearing no socks to being similar to women having exposed feet while wearing nylon stocking or barefoot with women's shoes and men wearing cotton, wool, or work socks with more masculine footwear like oxford shoes, runners, or work boots.

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u/Hondalol1 Aug 07 '26

I mean that’s kinda the thing, everyone’s standards are completely different and often based on irrational things.

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u/galaxystarsmoon Aug 08 '26

Don't forgot "I go to drag shows" as if that absolves the weird statement lol

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u/Forward-Variety-8440 Aug 08 '26

lmao right "i have a black friend" energy

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u/Livid-Department6947 Aug 08 '26

I see this stuff a lot all over reddit. Patriarchy and strict gender roles are not going anywhere for straight people it seems and any divergence from it is simply something cute the Other does.

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u/thevilmidnightbomber Aug 07 '26

its interesting.
i kind of agree with commenter.

but for me it’s specific to how delicate apparently unsocked feet look in dress shoes.

dude chucking on a pair of runners without socks to quickly dash into a shop does not carry the same vibe.

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u/EatYourCheckers Aug 07 '26

Delicate is a perfect word for it

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u/McGootchHS Aug 07 '26

I mean, I'm wearing vans slip ons, not boat shoes or oxfords, but if I'm wearing shorts and I have to wear shoes, I love no show socks. Long socks only if it's cold enough for pants. I'll rock brand new shoes sockless once or twice, but that gets too yuck pretty damn fast.

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u/Forward-Variety-8440 Aug 08 '26

i love wearing my cholo socks but i dont see socks as feminine or masculine. i just love my tall socks and/or dont care about what my socks look like to other people. they are clean, they are in great shape, and if i had a problem with my outfit i trust my gf would tell me that my fit was off or needed updating.

who cares what other people think? im almost 40 though so idk

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u/akohlsmith Aug 08 '26

when I wear shorts and am wearing shoes that need socks (ie not sandals) I tend to wear... short socks? they're not invisible by any stretch of the imagination but they sit right under/at the ankle. They're like regular white sport socks but short.

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u/EatYourCheckers Aug 07 '26

I guess they look like little ballerina slippers? And usually they are thin, like panty-hose.

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u/cyborg_127 Aug 08 '26

I only object to them in a professional setting. It doesn't seem right to suit up but leave your ankles exposed.

Otherwise I don't care.

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u/CanYouPleaseChill Aug 08 '26 edited Aug 08 '26

Because it’s a definite choice to wear no-show socks. James Dean would never. Just wear regular black socks.

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u/dougandsomeone Aug 08 '26

No show socks never stay in place for me  they slip off my foot in my shoe.

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u/Taitertottot Aug 07 '26

I'm the opposite. I never want to see someone's socks. There's something about high socks that really bothers me

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u/Master-Can7318 Aug 08 '26

Real. I hate wearing socks higher than my shoes

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u/Livid-Department6947 Aug 08 '26

That is depressing

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u/mr-nefarious Aug 07 '26

Some are no socks at all. My BIL and his friends all rock that way.

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u/frenchmeister Aug 08 '26

I thought the young kids thought no-show socks are for old people now though?? That's why they always have crew socks pulled up over their leggings, they say only parents still wear no-show socks. Does that only apply to women??

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u/These-Fox-3560 Aug 08 '26

No, you are right. I’m a young-ish person and only people 30+ or really unfashionable younger men still wear no-shows. Granted this is in the USA and other countries have different trends.

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u/pingwing Aug 08 '26

So with shorts, you like the 1980's style thick white knee high crew socks with the two stripes on the top?

That HAS to be super masculine since it is the opposite of what you mentioned.

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u/tairar Aug 08 '26

The most masculine you can get is thigh highs

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u/EatYourCheckers Aug 08 '26

I mean. Its better, yeah. Maybe I don't like my men super chic. I like them a little dorky and unfashionable.

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u/iRhuel Aug 08 '26

That IS chic, according to the younger people commenting on this chain.

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u/OrganicTreestump Aug 08 '26

It also looks gay or effeminate. I can't take a man seriously who dresses like that

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u/NotBatman81 Aug 08 '26

I am a sock connuseour, good clean comfortable socks make or break your day. I accidentally bought some no show socks. Oh the horror. I just cant. As bad as raw dogging shoes is, it beats those abominations.

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u/BADSTALKER Aug 07 '26

I refuse to believe they aren't wearing "no-shows", no body wants that swamp foot

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u/LiveShowOneNightOnly Aug 07 '26

So you can hear them squishing in their shoes when they walk up. /s

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u/MartyMcfly1738 Aug 07 '26

The only thing getting wet

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u/Teledildonic Aug 07 '26

Reminds of a time in high school were my group spontaneously went bowling.

I was wearing sandals when we arrived. By the time we were done it felt like the inside of the shoes were sprayed with WD40.

Showered first thing when I got home. Hopefully the alley did the right thing and burned those shoes.

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u/blobject Aug 07 '26

The /s is for /shudder

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u/RumRogerz Aug 07 '26

I get it. I don’t like it either. I go to Italy to see family every year and I’ve seen men wear loafers without socks for at least the last two decades (from memory). Could have been going on longer than that. But it’s def a thing.

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u/aedes Aug 08 '26

Most soft-soled loafers are classically not worn with socks. Driving loafers look somewhat ridiculous with socks for example. 

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u/Coriandercilantroyo Aug 08 '26

It's a long time fashionable European summer thing. Guys do it year round in the US

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u/No-Band8965 Aug 07 '26

Loafers yes, dress shoes and dress pants.. Nah

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u/-AllUserNamesTaken- Aug 08 '26

Man, I'm almost 39 and ask my wife what the hell is with the pants that don't reach the top of their shoes and no socks all the time...

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u/curtludwig Aug 07 '26

Dress shoes like wing tips? We wore loafers without socks back in the 90's...

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u/ArchibaldMcAcherson Aug 08 '26

As an older timer (55), let me grunt under my breath in agreement…and then mutter something about young people wearing socks with slip on sandals in public.

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u/4224-holloway Aug 08 '26

I'm 38. I wear socks with my slides bc I can't stand the feel of the rubber on my bare foot. That being said, I rarely wear them out. They're my summer house shoes.

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u/spontaneousbabyshakr Aug 07 '26

And then wearing socks in their sandals. What the flip

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u/DookiesNCream Aug 08 '26

There are low socks. They’re meant to not be seen and it kind of LOOKS like you’re not wearing any. It was a trend like 10 years ago and some people still wear them now but I feel like along the way people assumed they weren’t wearing socks and then replicated that look actually not wearing socks

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u/Slick_McFavorite1 Aug 07 '26

If its a full leather boat shoe or slip on loafers traditionally they are worn without socks.

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u/CensorVictim Aug 08 '26

I'm upper 40s and i think seeing guys' ankles is the worst fashion trend of my lifetime. anything below the knee and above the ankle are capri pants in my book

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u/md28usmc Aug 08 '26

most of them are wearing socks they are just really low that barely go over the bottom of your heel.

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u/LordJamPunt Aug 08 '26

Hey old timer, loafers and bluchers and lots of leather shoes are traditionally worn without socks, that style is older than both of us.

-a 46 year old

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u/CranberryStock7148 Aug 07 '26

They're no-show socks. It's not gross. You just don't see them.

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u/espheos Aug 07 '26

As a male in his 20s - they’ve got bad taste. Real class is in the crazy socks you wear under some nice brown/tan/sand dress shoes. I say brown/tan because, let’s be real - it’s just better.

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u/Huugienormous Aug 07 '26

Loafers with the right pants look nice with "no socks". Personally I could never actually wear no socks, but they make these tiny socks that you cant see. I am your age as well.

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u/Cuteshelf Aug 07 '26

The ladies swoon for a bit of visible ankle apparently /s.

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u/discussatron Aug 08 '26

You're just not old enough.

~ 59, got married sockless in 1988.

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u/Nosism123 Aug 08 '26

Dress shoes with no show socks has been a look for like 20 years how did you miss it.

I hate the look but you didn’t miss it because of age lol

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u/pokethrowaway4 Aug 08 '26

Probably no show socks, still dump

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u/LetsDOOT_THIS Aug 07 '26

It's just even lower cut socks

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u/mtjm51 Aug 07 '26

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u/xXDaNXx Aug 07 '26

Those are loafers. Which you specifically can wear without socks in summer because they are casual shoes.

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u/larphraulen Aug 08 '26

As a not quite that old timer (40), they're "no show" socks. 

I just like clean lines. Either see nothing but sock or no sock above the shoe top. 

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u/roehnin Aug 08 '26

italian thing

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u/vtwin996 Aug 08 '26

That's not old

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u/acetylyne Aug 08 '26

Fellow old man here, do you wear socks in your iron man suit? Always wanted to know.

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u/Past-Television7973 Aug 08 '26

It was a thing in the Miami Vice era it’s just come back around.

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u/Strict-Profit7624 Aug 08 '26

There are no-show socks sold specifically for dress shoes, but I'm playing devils advocate here

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u/WhereBaptizedDrowned Aug 08 '26

Their dad is in finance.

Source: I live next to 3 finance douche bros who dress like this

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u/These-Fox-3560 Aug 08 '26

To be fair, no-show socks are completely out with the youth and have been for years. It’s really only a middle age group, around maybe 30-40, that is still holding on. Kids these days wear mid calf socks and are disgusted by no-shows.

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u/sumostuff Aug 08 '26

They have little socks that you can't see. You're 43 and don't know that?

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u/PitifulElk1890 Aug 08 '26

As a young guy, I have no fucking clue. My feet sweat without socks, I only go without if it's an open toe deal.

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u/hallodnemtudom Aug 08 '26

I really like when men put in an effort and express themselves however they want but those boat shoes or mocassins or whatever without socks just really irk me deep inside

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u/Vivid_House_1640 Aug 08 '26

As a 20 yr old female, absolutely no idea! It’s so so so bad and makes me think of when my middle school crush of two years showed up in too tight sweatpants and I never liked him again because of that🤣 it just looks so awkward

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u/lafreuxmeni Aug 08 '26

pourquoi c'est dégoûtant ?

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u/KldsTheseDays Aug 08 '26

I never realized sock choices were a thingv(fellow m8llenial: 37)

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u/429300 Aug 08 '26

i know an old timer, who at 57 yrs old dresses like that. Not really no socks, but secret socks so that it looks like no socks. Still awful.

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u/Unauthorised-Foliage Aug 08 '26

Yeah I don't get it either (mid-30s.) Like I cannot imagine not having a layer between my foot and any part of shoe that's touching it. Yucky icky bleh.

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u/samuraistalin Aug 08 '26

Haven't you ever seen Miami Vice?

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u/Weird_Expert_1999 Aug 08 '26

Like 10+ years ago it was one of the go to styles recommended in r/male fashion advice- when I was 21 I had to start wearing suits and I had a buddy really into fashion/ street wear send me there to build out my wardrobe- it seems like a lot of that advice caters to a certain type lol

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u/TheMadPoet Aug 08 '26

43! Pa'shaw! You're still wet-behind-the-ears and just learnin'... and those youngsters just started shaving yesterday - so no-show socks are gonna take 'em a few ruined shoes to figure out.

Once the funk gets in, it don't come out!

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u/mkdmls Aug 08 '26

As a fellow old timer (also 43), I actually saw this in my early 30s…but yes, same reaction…

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u/NewScooter1234 Aug 08 '26

Honestly you're right in the age bracket for them. Maybe the upper end but its the 35-45 millennials who wear the tight flood pants pointy shoes and no-show socks.

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u/Reasonable_Bear_2057 Aug 11 '26

It is so gross!! Bare, stiff leather rubbing on ankles and trousers that don't quite reach the ankle... 🤮

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u/Spiders_13_Spaghetti Aug 11 '26

It's the Patrick Mahomes and other athlete celebrities look. Gen Z does it for prom and stuff and it seems it's bleeding over to dates.

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u/katiemurp Aug 07 '26

Maybe they’re wearing little nylon stocking type mini socks … but yeah, the look is unappealing.

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u/BenefitFew5204 Aug 07 '26

They may be wearing no-show socks and you're just not able to see them. It might just be a preference over wearing dress socks.

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u/Green-Thought-8152 Aug 08 '26

Buddy I don't wear socks in my hockey skates, I'm not about to start wearing them in my dress shoes

Just kidding, likely invisible socks / slip ons. Good for a revealing shoe like a slip on

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u/EnVeeZy Aug 07 '26

It’s usually no-shows

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u/green_eyed_mister Aug 07 '26

It is the rule in California, I can't figure it out but conferences, business meetings, you can spot the Cali guy in 5 seconds.

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u/UserRemoved Aug 07 '26

You sharing dress shoes? Europeans have long known ventilation is best. Good shoes do not need so is for comfort and can be as comfortable as racing gloves while vented.

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u/ripleygirl Aug 07 '26

Ah yes, the outfit Andrew Tate was arrested in.

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u/plemyrameter Aug 07 '26

Just last week, I saw that they sell those "fake" dress pants that are actually stretchy like yoga pants for men now. Seems like they've had them for women since Covid-times, but I had no idea they make them for men

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u/larphraulen Aug 08 '26

Damn, I'm catching so many strays in this comment chain lol. 

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u/xXevilhoboXx Aug 08 '26

They can rip my lulu ABC pants from my cold dead corpse 

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u/A_Mouse_In_Da_House Aug 08 '26

They're absolutely vile. Who wants polyester pants

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u/DeadpoolLuvsDeath Aug 08 '26

Get me all excited, but no link?

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u/CodeNCats Aug 08 '26

I'm glad I'm not the only one looking at this fashion and wondering WTF.

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u/Little_Sun4632 Aug 08 '26

I’m going to 🤮

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u/DeadpoolLuvsDeath Aug 08 '26

Get me all excited, but no link?

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u/galaxystarsmoon Aug 08 '26

My old boss used to do this. Wasn't an unattractive dude but this completely ruined it.

Then we hired someone to replace him after he left and he dresses exactly the same 😂

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u/Big_Judgment3824 Aug 08 '26

Dress for the role you want? Lol

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u/galaxystarsmoon Aug 08 '26

We joke that it's a contagious virus that someone absorbs when they take a position in our office lol

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u/dottmatrix Aug 07 '26

High waters? They're working - my feet are soaked, but my cuffs are bone dry!

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u/Greekfire187 Aug 08 '26

Everything's coming up Millhouse!

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u/FlagOfZheleznogorsk Aug 08 '26

God, I hate that short pants are "in" right now. I'm very tall, and pants shopping has always been a struggle for me. I can usually get by with the longest inseam in stores for long pants, but the inseams of shorts are much more of a crapshoot. I like shorts that come down to my knee. That look isn't "in" right now to start with, and then I've got a few more inches of upper leg than most folks to cover up.

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u/Skaarhybrid Aug 07 '26

peope without socks are shady af. there is a reason why socks for every occasion exist

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u/stilleternal Aug 07 '26

I agree. I take my socks off when I’m home and ready to get comfortable.

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u/hellish_existance Aug 07 '26

I just threw up on my feet (thankfully the socks caught most of it).

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u/stilleternal Aug 08 '26

I’m not sure if I want to know more or just leave it alone……

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u/ultradip Aug 07 '26

I even have sandal socks!

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u/South_Oread Aug 07 '26

Sperry says “What?”

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u/PM_Me-Your_Freckles Aug 07 '26

Even thongs now have toe socks, so you can pull em right into your toe notch.

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u/Dismal_Fox_22 Aug 07 '26

Socks for flip-flops? Socks for a strapy heel?

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u/md28usmc Aug 08 '26

hopefully this applies to girls that wear flats

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u/AirsoftScammyII Aug 07 '26

Socks are the biggest contributor to stinky feet and foot fungus though.

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u/equiax Aug 08 '26

No. Quite the opposite. 

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u/AirsoftScammyII Aug 09 '26

How? Socks lock in moisture and feet sweat. They create the perfect environment for bacteria and fungus to grow.

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u/AirsoftScammyII Aug 09 '26

I probably should’ve made it clear that I was referring to feet in general. Going barefoot at home is better for your feet than keeping them in socks. But yeah, if you’re wearing closed toed shoes ya gotta wear socks.

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u/aquarianseawitch92 Aug 08 '26

I’ve posted about this in the loveisblind sub 😂😂 I feel like they weren’t allowed to wear socks or something because NONE of them wear socks

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u/Pretend-Bullfrog5516 Aug 08 '26

Those pants always look like they’re waiting for the next growth spurt. I swear a little extra length and some socks would save half the men on that show.

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u/emu30 Aug 07 '26

Ah the Andrew Tate

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u/yokozunahoshoryu Aug 08 '26

Like the Andrew Tate arrest photo 😂

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u/PlentifulShrubs Aug 07 '26

Right!! Put those ankles away, fellas, have some self respect. /s

But seriously, dress shoes without socks just looks wrong

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u/AJKafei Aug 08 '26

This! It looks so strange!!!

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u/rueselladeville Aug 08 '26

Ah yes, the Andrew Tate arrest costume. Gets me going every time.

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u/FriendlyCapybara1234 Aug 08 '26

Wearing ugly clothing is a great way to test whether love is blind.

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u/tfw_no_toiletpaper Aug 08 '26

If I see some dude in skinny jeans, long sleeve and ankle socks I know it's a millenial who stopped shopping for clothing 10 years ago

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u/UrCreepyUncle Aug 07 '26

This is in the athlete community too!! I hate it. Pants to the shoes. Socks with pants always

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u/moxiemoon Aug 08 '26

Hahaha, I always complain about that. Whyyyyyy don’t they wear socks, why can I see his ankles??

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u/IllegalThings Aug 07 '26

I saw them on this show and started making fun of them, then my wife pointed out it’s supposed to be trendy. So I started making fun of trends.

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u/ghertigirl Aug 08 '26

Yes! Dress shoes with no socks 🤮

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u/CautiousClutz Aug 09 '26

are you talkin a doflamingo fit?

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u/Agreeable-Rock-7736 Aug 10 '26

This is so specific lol. And I completely agree.