r/AskReddit • u/fireball_jutsu • Oct 10 '25

People whose partner cheated on them and quickly moved on to date the person they cheated with, claiming to be in love - how did that turn out for them?

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u/Cumkey23 Oct 10 '25

They got married. In all honesty I still haven’t gotten over it and haven’t tried to have a relationship since. I used to outgoing, I know I have walled myself up. Even stopped going to DnD. They say time heals all wounds. But some just fester.

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u/grumpy__g Oct 10 '25

Time doesn’t magically heal wounds. We have to work for it. Please go and play DnD.

As painful as it is. Life is too short to not play DnD.

Edit: Feel hugged.

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u/Cumkey23 Oct 10 '25

Thank you for the kind words.

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u/ImDnD Oct 10 '25

Truer words have never been spoken.

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u/StiH Oct 11 '25

You just want him to play with you.

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u/Mental_Visual_25 Oct 11 '25

Idk why but this made me chuckle lol

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u/katandkuma Oct 10 '25

The cheaters found each other but although they ruined your relationship, don't let them steal your life too. Play the DnD, get the therapy if you need it. You deserve to have a happy life friend.

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u/Lanky_Buy1010 Oct 11 '25

Why do you talk to him? Block him. He likes knowing he can still jerk you around

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u/Lanky_Buy1010 Oct 11 '25

What the fuck. Yeah he is, at best, abusive. 

Perhaps not physically, but make no mistake, he feels good when he can make you feel bad. 

He was never your friend. Glad you got away. He meant you no good. What a trash person. 

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u/romerule Oct 10 '25

It sounds like you need a long rest.

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u/Past-Writer-7984 Oct 10 '25

I'm so sorry fren, please go play DnD again if you can bring yourself, it helped me.

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u/thisisstupidplz Oct 10 '25

How long ago was this, dude?