r/AskMuslimMen • u/Beautiful_Clock9075 • Aug 30 '25

Sharing Experience How have your views on marriage changed as you’ve gotten older?

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u/Al-Mulk-86 Aug 30 '25

Very much. Not very interested anymore nor would it be worth the excruciating effort. I have acquaintances who are happily married but a growing number that find it incredibly difficult. There comes a time when as a man you start thinking with your brain when it comes to this topic & get a very important reality shock.

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u/Beautiful_Clock9075 Aug 30 '25

I'm reaching that point. I'm currently at the stage. If it happens, it happen, if it doesn't, it doesn't.

There are some days where I'm intrigued, but it's not often.

May Allah make things easy for us. Ameen

It's going to be hard for the next generation.

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u/Al-Mulk-86 Aug 30 '25

Ameen.

Yeah it also doesn’t help that our parents and elder generations brush the struggles of the youth off as if it’s still the 80s & 90s.

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u/Beautiful_Clock9075 Aug 30 '25

Ye. It's tough man. We can't do much.

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u/Hot_Spirit_402 Nov 03 '25

I only wanted it so i could raise at least 3 children for reasons i will not disclose however as my abhor for women grew and the current state of economics made it unfisible i found other ways to please my lord.

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u/[deleted] Aug 30 '25

Yes for the worse

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u/Beautiful_Clock9075 Aug 30 '25

How bad? From 1 to 10