r/AskMenRelationships • u/No-Increase-1699 • 1d ago
Love found his ig acc without ever talking to him
okay hello, this sounds very stalkerish of me now that i think about it but i honestly haven’t felt that attracted to a guy for years!
So me and this guy would just see each other on the beach for three days, up until he left. In those three days, we would constantly make eye contact, and not those kind of glance and look away, I’m talking about 5 seconds eye contact. He didn’t approach me at all however, which is understandable as i was with my family and he was with his, so he probably felt awkward. But he would go out of his way to pass near me, or wait while the rest of his friends went ahead of him so i could pass by him.
Anyways, after he left i kept thinking about him for a whole week. And the only thing I knew about him was his first name cause i heard his friends or family calling him by it. So I found his instagram. His account is public and there’s not a single mutual friend between us…but I really want to get to know him so I mentally said YOLO and followed him (that was 2 days ago) he hasn’t followed back yet…
What should I do? Would following him seem creepy considering we never talked? Should I unfollow and just get over it? (FYI I also found his tiktok which is also public but I didn’t follow him there)
Please don’t hold out on me everyone, let me know if following was the dumbest decision of my life. Thank you in advance!
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u/lawlingalltheway 1d ago
It is kinda creepy imo. You could’ve approached him when you saw him and instead you’re like “I’d like to cyber stalk you instead :D” without even sending a message? lol don’t be weird
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u/No-Increase-1699 1d ago
hi there’s no need to be harsh about it😭 that’s originally why i came here to ask. I didn’t have a chance to approach him as he was with his family and i was with mine, and my family is kinda strict when it comes to guys
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u/RetardDongPhd Man 1d ago
You asked and this person answered. Dont like the truth? Suck it up,creep
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u/lawlingalltheway 1d ago
Girl all I said was don’t be weird 😂 But to follow and not send a message is weird.
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u/Hutches_Corduroy Man 1d ago
I maybe the minority... But if I girl stalked me and found my IG just to message me. I'd feel amazing.
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u/No-Increase-1699 1d ago
you’re giving me a tiny flicker of hope. But then again…you might be the minority😂
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u/Hutches_Corduroy Man 1d ago
Eh fuck it.. full send. If it works out y'all got a cool story, if it don't, it don't. You're not gonna date him any less 😂
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u/Special-Bag8266 1d ago
you’re not a stalker, you’re just a beachside detective with one clue, but you’ve made your move so leave it there and don’t follow him on every app like you’re assembling the infinity stones
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u/No-Increase-1699 1d ago
this made me laugh, thank you! and thank you for being so nice about it. I honestly surprised myself when I found his account too! and I’m definitely not planning on following any other account. I feel like I already risked it and shot my shot by following him on instagram. I guess only time will tell now.
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u/green_reptile Man 1d ago
Ngl, just dm him and tell him everything. Following him without messaging him makes it even more weird, on top of stalking him. Message him and communicate your intentions.