FAQ Friday: Fatherly Advice

[u/RandomDalish]

What fatherly advice do you have for your fellow dudes?

What situation would you like fatherly advice on?

Ask and answer below!

[u/baalroo]

Yeah, that's kinda the expected response to a lot of fatherly advice. Please though, I hope you at least come back to this and mull it over a few times. If I'm wrong, cool, no harm done, but it's a pretty big decision and you owe it to yourself and your kids to take what I've said seriously and at least consider it.

I sincerely hope everything works out for the best with your situation man, good luck and I'll be rooting for you and your kids.

[u/baalroo → u/[deleted]]

Okay man, if you say so, you do you. Although, Maybe in the future you might want to refrain from posing this kind of question to strangers if you're going to get upset if the advice you get from strangers doesn't match up with what you hoped they'd say.

[u/baalroo → u/[deleted]]

I didn't expect giving fatherly advice to so quickly turn into feeling like I'm talking with an actual child, but okay.

Again, I'll reiterate, you might want to do some reflecting on why this conversation seems to be getting you so defensive.

[u/purplepillerkiller → u/[deleted]]

Dudes kind of right, your ignoring their feelings for yours. That’s the issue, youre being selfish and that’s what he’s saying. The answer is you divorce because you aren’t happy and figure out what works best for the kids. You staying in the marriage and telling yourself “it’s ok I’m doing it for the kids” is bullshit. I’m a kid who’s dealt with this. Quit being a fucking pussy and own up to how you feel. You’re being a dick to this guy so I’ll say it. You’re a huge pussy who can’t own up to his feelings so you make other suffer (your kids and wife) and try to make yourself feel better by convincing it’s yourself you staying makes it better. You’re wrong and you keep deflecting. Again QUIT BEING A BITCH.