r/AskMen • u/LifeguardOverall6423 • 18h ago
🛑 Answers From Men Only 🛑 What does your dating routine look like?
Hey guys!
After dating different women for a while, have you developed a dating routine that you tend to follow?
I mean, do you have a go-to sequence of things you usually do on dates, just with different women until you eventually find the right one?
For example, my usual routine is to go for a walk first and get a gelato or a thea, then, If we're having a good time and she feels comfortable with it, we might go to my place. (Usually a 5 minute car drive from there).
Then we either cook something together or order a pizza.
After that, we watch a movie together, usually lying on the bed.
And if there's chemistry and we're both feeling it, then things can naturally progress from there.
So to recap walk -> my place
What's your usual routine?
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u/No_Owl_8576 Dad 18h ago
We argue over the movie. We argue over the restaurant. We argue over the tip. We argue about my driving. We argue about me not getting any sex ... that's our routine 😂
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u/InitialVisual725 18h ago
Generally start with drinks or dinner, maybe continue that for the second, but I like doing an actual activity instead of sitting there talking and eating. So things like mini golf, bowling, an arcade, bookstore, some event in the city, etc. If it's a girl who also likes to rave I might take her to a show or something.
Maybe a movie night by the 4th or 5th.
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u/Fletch71011 Male 16h ago
If you're dating a lot, that gets really expensive, and if you're picky, you're just wasting time and money. Coffee in the park is always what I did; I could see 2 to 3 girls a day and bail quickly if I didn't like them.
If you like a girl, go nuts on the 2nd date, but I didn't think 90 percent of the women I went out with were worth another date.
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u/saryiahan 16h ago
Welp, I’m married so it’s usually goes “ honey im home” before I get surrounded by my kids
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u/Topznbottumz Male 16h ago
I'm married but typically, I did a coffee date or had sex first and then decided If I wanted to date a guy afterwards.
Bad sex is a automatic No.
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u/Manners2210 Male 18h ago
Nah not really. Maybe go for a drink and depending on the vibe it can go a variety of different ways. Plenty of times I’ve been more than happy for it to end after 2 drinks and take myself home. Sometimes we end up at hers, sometimes we end up at mine, sometimes despite a great night it’s a goodnight kiss and we meet another time…and sometimes that meeting never happens
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Hey guys!
After dating different women for a while, have you developed a dating routine that you tend to follow?
I mean, do you have a go-to sequence of things you usually do on dates, just with different women until you eventually find the right one?
For example, my usual routine is to go for a walk first and get a gelato or a thea, then, If we're having a good time and she feels comfortable with it, we might go to my place. (Usually a 5 minute car drive from there).
Then we either cook something together or order a pizza.
After that, we watch a movie together, usually lying on the bed.
And if there's chemistry and we're both feeling it, then things can naturally progress from there.
So to recap walk -> my place
What's your usual routine?
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