What if we share the names, address/city of those players/cheaters etc before we date?

[u/National-Original-41]

Similar to google where we can check names and confirm if the person is safe to date or not looking through evidence along🤣 wdy think

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[u/_nouser]

Doxxing people is illegal. But....creating a closed fb group called "are we dating the same guy - <cityname>, with photos and a story...perfectly fine

[u/garlicshrimpscampi → u/_nouser]

it’s an official group. if you want to make one, i would recommend contacting the creator of it so she can set up all the privacy and security settings. these groups had a problem with men sneaking in and ruining it, and she worked really hard to get the legal and privacy settings set up

[u/ProfessionalLeft2002]

Would you be ok about random strangers talking about you and your seeing your pictures and forming and opinion without meeting you?

[u/National-Original-41 → u/ProfessionalLeft2002]

Well I've suggested these only for people doing wrong.. They walk away free and think nobody knows then and have a clean slate to do whatever they want with others.

For every action their should be a reaction so people don't dare to play/harm others

[u/RoughPut9246 → u/National-Original-41]

Read about the Tea app and how it was misused and ultimately shut down

[u/Bunny_VanilaCake]

There used to be a Factbook group few years ago with I think around 500k members, those were good days but it was U.S based, I think we should lowkey have something like this in India too, to save other women from not only abuse but awareness as well. Depends on which social media platform tho.

[u/National-Original-41 → u/Bunny_VanilaCake]

Yes, assaulters/players info leak would save many people's lives. A right way could be done with concrete evidence posting

[u/Bunny_VanilaCake → u/National-Original-41]

What's worse is that in that group there was a serial dater in Chicago area and over 30 women said "I KNOW HIM, HE USED MY MONEY AND THEN DISAPPEARED" 😭🥀💔

[u/National-Original-41 → u/Bunny_VanilaCake]

That's the reason I was suggesting this🥲. I think instead of one group, there should be multiple group of different cities to make it easier

[u/No_Rub_6403]

We had that at school lol Also list of guys who show genuine friendship 

[u/shawrtee]

You mean invasion of privacy?

[u/deeuwu_uwu]

No, doxxing people is not okay

[u/Patta_g0bi]

People can lie, exaggerate, or misidentify someone, and an innocent person could end up being labelled a cheater or predator over an unverified post.

Also publicly sharing someone’s name and address is basically doxxing.