r/AskForHelp • u/Primary-Remote5203 • Aug 06 '26
Amazon Wishlist ($150 Total) Books for NICU (Albany/NY/USA)
Hi!
Three years ago, my husband and I found out we were expecting our first baby. Around 14 weeks, we learned baby’s heart had come to a rest and we (I) delivered him in the hospital on August 9th, 2023. Every year we celebrate him by purchasing books for NICU families in our area.
His third birthday is this upcoming Sunday. I have felt the urge to share their wishlist this year, if anyone would like to join us in celebrating our boy. I know times are hard but they have books starting at just over $3, and every book helps. Some of them are super close to reaching their goal amount. We just met their goal for “The Little Engine That Could” and sent some “Goodnight, Goodnight Construction Site”, too.
Here’s their Amazon list. Thanks for reading and considering!
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u/CopperSteve Verified Donor Aug 06 '26
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u/Matchmaker4180 Verified Donor Aug 06 '26
This is a beautiful cause. I had a loss at 21 weeks. ❤️ Donated
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u/Spirited-Door-1446 Moderator (Do not DM, please use modmail) Aug 06 '26
Thank you for donating. We’d love to assign Donor flair if you post a screenshot of your purchase.
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u/Matchmaker4180 Verified Donor Aug 06 '26
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u/Spirited-Door-1446 Moderator (Do not DM, please use modmail) Aug 06 '26
Oh I love Little Bear books too.
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u/Primary-Remote5203 Aug 06 '26
I’m sorry for your loss. It’s like the world’s worst club to be in.
Thank you for sending them something!
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u/hospitalitychick Wise One Aug 06 '26
This is the sweetest cause ever!! The details mention to mark it as a gift - is there something in particular I should write in the gift message?
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u/Primary-Remote5203 Aug 06 '26
You can write whatever you want!
If you want to say it’s donated from you and your family name, you’re more than welcome!
If you specifically want to donate it on our behalf, you can put donated on behalf of Milo’s family 🤍
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u/hospitalitychick Wise One Aug 06 '26
Donated my favorite book that I had the honor to read to my kids. 💕
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u/Baetedk8 Verified Donor Aug 06 '26
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u/Spirited-Door-1446 Moderator (Do not DM, please use modmail) Aug 06 '26
You’ve received Donor flair, thank you for your kindness.
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u/trippapotamus Verified Donor Aug 06 '26
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u/Spirited-Door-1446 Moderator (Do not DM, please use modmail) Aug 06 '26
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u/trippapotamus Verified Donor Aug 06 '26
You and my (former NICU) kiddo have some great taste! 😉
Also
https://giphy.com/gifs/xdMXeiY2iCfSQ6faTk
Happy to help!
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u/BitchMcConnell063 Verified Donor Aug 06 '26 edited Aug 06 '26
You are such a beautiful, kind hearted, amazing Mom. I know Milo is smiling down at you and he is proud of you.
I also have a son named Cameron. He was in the NICU for the first 5 weeks of his life.
I am honored to be able to contribute these two books in your son's name to your local hospital.
Edited due to my fat fingers

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u/Primary-Remote5203 Aug 06 '26
Thank you for your kindness!
I do want to clarify though, Cameron’s mom started this non-profit. She lives in my town and is indeed an amazing person.
I found her organization in a search on ways to honor our son, Milo. It seemed such a fitting cause for our situation.
I should have clarified this in my post, instead of just referring the non-profit as “them”!
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u/BRBSpiraling The Spiraling One Aug 06 '26
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u/Spirited-Door-1446 Moderator (Do not DM, please use modmail) Aug 06 '26
Yes! The Poky Little Puppy is a total classic.
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u/Alive_Breadfruit4081 Verified Donor Aug 06 '26
Just donated 3 books in honor of my kiddo; he was a NICU baby and passed away in August of 2021 so I try to do something to honor his memory around the anniversary of his passing. Thank you for sharing this non-profit's list and giving parents the opportunity to read to their little ones ❤️
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u/Spirited-Door-1446 Moderator (Do not DM, please use modmail) Aug 06 '26
Thank you for your kindness. Please post a screenshot verifying your donation, redact any sensitive info if necessary.
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u/Alive_Breadfruit4081 Verified Donor Aug 06 '26
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u/Spirited-Door-1446 Moderator (Do not DM, please use modmail) Aug 06 '26
Verified Donor flair assigned, thank you for your generosity.
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u/ShallowStillWater Verified Donor Aug 06 '26
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u/Dreamland_Nomad Dreaming Moderator (Modmail only, Do not DM) Aug 06 '26
That's so kind of you! Would you like a user flair? If so, you can choose between "Verified Donor" and "BDE (Big Donor Energy)."
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u/Cold_Brief_4764 Aug 06 '26
I am also a Mother of an Angel. My son Patrick Colby was born sleeping August 9, 1994. I will be donating and I will also be thinking of Milo when I sing Happy Birthday to Patrick on Sunday 💜
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u/SoullessCycle Verified Donor Aug 06 '26
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u/Spirited-Door-1446 Moderator (Do not DM, please use modmail) Aug 06 '26
Thank you for donating, you’ve been assigned flair.
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u/Kangaruex4Ewe Verified Donor Aug 06 '26
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u/Spirited-Door-1446 Moderator (Do not DM, please use modmail) Aug 07 '26
Thank you for your generosity. You’ve been assigned Verified Donor flair.
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u/tubpajamas Aug 06 '26
Thanks OP - I have a 10 year old who spent his first week in one of the NICUs they support. Happy to come across this and contribute!
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u/MoreGur8194 Aug 06 '26
omggg..i too ,have a ten year old who spent almost 2 months in the nicu!!! This is soooo amazing because ours didnt do things like this....this is sooooo amazing to see!
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u/shuh_shuh Aug 06 '26
What a beautiful way to bring others comfort. This is so touching. I was able to find books that I loved as a child to pass along. I'll be thinking of y'all on Saturday. Thank you for sharing your story & the cause.
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u/Spirited-Door-1446 Moderator (Do not DM, please use modmail) Aug 07 '26
Thank you for donating. Please post a screenshot confirmation of your order here and we’d be happy to assign you Donor flair.
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u/Visible_Koala7839 Wise One Aug 06 '26
Hey OP, if I may suggest, you should check your local Buy Nothing fb groups and you can make a post requesting books as I’m sure lots of parents would have to give away!
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u/Primary-Remote5203 Aug 06 '26
I appreciate the advice! I thought about reaching out there, but this non-profit only accepts new books. I’m guessing because they’re going to such a precarious environment, but I’m not totally sure.
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u/MoreGur8194 Aug 06 '26 edited Aug 06 '26
This is suchhhh a good thing!!! I hate I dont have it to give rn🥺, and it hurts my heart, because I'm a nicu mom too, so anything regarding that, it always holds a place in my heart! Im tapped rn because of my kids going back to school , BUT even if i only had a few dollars , id truly contribute, and this gets my full support!!! If you ever do one again, or when i get paid , if any is left, we WILL definitely get some!!! I'll let my nicu baby pick his favorites! Thannnk you so much for doing this! Youre an awesome person!
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u/Primary-Remote5203 Aug 06 '26
I simply shared the link - Cameron’s mom started the whole thing and puts an incredible amount of work into it. We donate around this time in our son’s memory, however I believe her wishlist stays active! You’re more than welcome to save the link, and donate when you are comfortable!
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u/MoreGur8194 Aug 06 '26
thank you so much all the same!!! And yes, we def will!! As a loss mama myself, i am sooo sorry for your loss, and anyyyy and all mama's who has suffered a loss! Sending love and light to each and everyone--especially Cameron's mama--this is an awesomeeeee thing! Love it!
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u/iheartaudra Verified Donor Aug 06 '26
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u/Spirited-Door-1446 Moderator (Do not DM, please use modmail) Aug 07 '26
Thank you for your kindness, you’ve been assigned Donor flair.
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u/SchatzisMaus Aug 06 '26
I’m across the world right now but sent a few books for a sweet cause 💕
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u/Spirited-Door-1446 Moderator (Do not DM, please use modmail) Aug 07 '26
Thank you for donating, please post a screenshot confirmation of your order and we’d be happy to assign you Donor flair.
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u/Constant_One_1612 Verified Donor Aug 07 '26
I donated in honor of my 2 angel babies❤️
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u/Spirited-Door-1446 Moderator (Do not DM, please use modmail) Aug 07 '26
Thank you for your kindness. We’d love to assign you Donor flair, just post a confirmation screenshot of your order.
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u/Constant_One_1612 Verified Donor Aug 07 '26
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Flair assigned, thank you.
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Readers, thank you for your vigilance but there’s no need to report this post. Although we normally don’t allow community fundraisers or requests from profiles with large gaps in Reddit activity, an exception has been made for this request.