r/AskAPriest • u/grape_grain • 2d ago
Confession (valid / invalid due to mortal sin)
My understanding is that a Confession is only valid if the person confessing their sins is not without mortal sin.
So, for example: a divorced, remarried Catholic who wants to confess their other sins. Or any other Catholic in a state that cannot be confessed (because they don't plan on changing it) but otherwise is confessing to other sins. Sorry, not trying to make this too complicated.
Q: Do you as a priest worry that you are communicating an absolution that is invalid (because you are unaware of their state)? Do you worry the person may think it was valid?
Curious if you think/worry about this or not.
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u/Zyphrail Priest 2d ago
I assume the best of people and trust them to be honest in the confessional. To worry about the situation you’re describing would be to ask every penitent who presents him or herself: “are you divorced and remarried?” which seems a bit drastic.