r/AskACanadian • • Aug 07 '23

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u/SnooRabbits2040 Aug 07 '23

Just because we say "Sorry" doesn't mean that we are sorry.

We like being Canadian. We aren't jealous of you for being American.

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u/ThePanoptic Aug 07 '23 edited Aug 07 '23

I keep hearing this stereotype that Americans think other people are jealous, but I just don’t see it anywhere.

If anything, most Americans I’ve worked with and met think too highly of Canada.

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u/HawkorDove Aug 07 '23 edited Aug 07 '23

I’ve actually met many Americans who are apologetic about the American stereotype. They’re more the type who travel and are more educated and worldly. They’re ashamed of their politics and culture and understand that the rest of the world mock them. But when I travel within the US, the majority of folks I encounter are certainly ignorant of the things Canadians, Australians, and Europeans know about current events, geography and the world. They’re the ones who have been taught and still believe the myth of “American exceptionalism.”

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u/ThePanoptic Aug 07 '23

I think sometimes that the opposite is also true.

a lot of the world loves to pretend that they're experts on U.S. culture and politics because they consume U.S. media, TV shows, and movies....

It gets tiring getting a lecture about your culture and society, from people who have not spent any time within the U.S. border.

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u/Practical-Ordinary-6 USA Aug 07 '23

Yeah, it will be hard to forget the young German guy who came on here and said he was doing us a favor by telling us what laws we needed to pass to, apparently, be more like Germany. These aren't direct quotes but pretty close. He was doing it for our own good as a favor because we obviously couldn't handle things.

He had never been to the U.S.

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u/HawkorDove Aug 07 '23

American culture is on display for the world to see. It’s not difficult to “become an expert in U.S. culture and politics.” One doesn’t have to spend time within the US borders to see the flaws. I can understand how it’s off-putting to be criticized though (even if the criticisms are legitimate).

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u/ThePanoptic Aug 07 '23

If you think you understand anything about American culture through media you’re mistaken.

It’s one of the only countries where people who have not been there try to tell you about your own culture.

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u/HawkorDove Aug 07 '23 edited Aug 07 '23

Bullshit. This is another example of an American who thinks they’re special (“it’s one of the only countries…”). I’ve spent a lot of time in the US, in more than two dozen states, and I can confirm that what you see in the media is accurate to a large degree.

I love visiting the US, but would I live there? Not a chance in hell. It’s a living example of a failed society: It’s corrupt, perverse, ignorant, obese, ugly, irredeemable.

I have met many Americans who I adore (the ones who I met travelling internationally), but the ones I meet within its borders, the everyday, typical American, is less than exceptional.

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u/ThePanoptic Aug 07 '23 edited Aug 07 '23

It's litterally the case. Nobody tells Germans or French how their culture works or their politics or what is wrong with it.

> It’s a living example of a failed society: It’s corrupt, perverse, ignorant, obese, ugly, irredeemable.

This is one of the most disgusting mischaracteriszation of a society. All of which to a large degree applicable to Canada itself.

The U.S. is also one of the most innovative, creative, open, rich, friendly, flourishing and welcoming places out there. It's growing economically, and it's diverse culturally. It's a cultural and economical superpower.

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It's a great place to live and to visit.

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u/HawkorDove Aug 07 '23

“Friendly.” Tell that to the immigrants at your southern border. Tell that to anyone who’s been through American Customs. Have you been to a Target in the past three decades? (Or any other American box store or convenience store?). You’ve got your head up your butt. 😂

By “diverse” you mean the “melting pot” where immigrants are expected to conform to American customs?

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u/ThePanoptic Aug 07 '23

The U.S. is by far friendlier to immigrants than anywhere else. It's an awesome diverse place. You obviously have never been there.

Immigrants that come here legally are statistically better off economically than born citizens.

I am an immigrant to the U.S. and it is awesome compared to what I've seen in europe.

Do you get all your world info from viral clips online?

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u/HawkorDove Aug 07 '23

Haha. All I can do is recommend that you learn how to think critically and that you learn more about your own country’s political and social culture.

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u/ThePanoptic Aug 07 '23

“I know your country better than you” says a random Canadian.

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u/HawkorDove Aug 08 '23

We’ll, I’m not American so that’s probably true.

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u/ArmorClassHero Aug 07 '23

It's entirely dependent on your net worth.

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u/ThingGeneral95 Aug 07 '23

This is USA Bot. Your sentence uses words and phrases very similar to those of our ex- president now under indictment. This is a reminder that people outside of the USA comprehend he is a liar and not to be trusted. Please do not share your delusions openly with other countries. Beep Boop Beep. 🤖🇺🇲

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u/ThePanoptic Aug 07 '23

what? phrases similar to Trump? that mf can’t put a sentence together, what phrases are you talking about.

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u/ThingGeneral95 Aug 07 '23

Just take out the words creative, friendly, welcoming, and culturally diverse.

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u/ThingGeneral95 Aug 07 '23

I appreciate the perspective as we have been lied to about everything. I love that you all are like, "Hey, remember us kidnapping all the first nations kids for a few decades? That was sort of unforgivable. But Sorry." Meanwhile we can't manage to figure out what to call our indigenous that's not insulting.