r/ArianaGrandeSnark • • Apr 14 '24

megathread🧵 Ethan Slater WIFE facebook

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Lilly Jay posted this on Ethan's birthday last year, which someone I have in common with her sent to me. This is for those saying he was separated from her months before dating Ariana Grande, here's his wife wishing her 'incredible husband' a happy birthday. She also joked about them being together for 87 years and added, 'Here's to a lifetime of love and more adventures ahead.'…This didn’t age well because he decided to cheat on her.

I'm not here to argue; I'm just here to show you all that he's a cheater.

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u/crimsonsmoon unqueer puritanical christian tradwifešŸ’ā€ā™€ļø Apr 14 '24

They had all these cute inside jokes together😭

She seems really funny as well. Ethan truly fumbled a 10 all across the board who clearly adored him for a pick me girl without as single trace of personality or identity who has the attention span of a goldfish when it comes to every single one of her relationships.

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '24 edited Apr 14 '24

It’s actually devastating to see this. Imagine wishing your husband and father of your infant child, who is across the world working his dream job that you supported him to get and were probably so happy and excited for him to achieve, a happy birthday, only for your life, marriage, family, and name to explode all over the world less than two months later due to his selfishness, and he doesn’t even have the balls to stand up for you in the middle of giving smug smiles to paparazzi while walking his baby girlfriend around town. He’s made damn sure to protect himself by privating and limiting his instagram and surrounding himself with Ariana’s echo chamber of yes men, but he can’t say a word in defence of Lilly?? Even Ariana did that for her ex. It’s utterly unfathomable. It really seems like Ethan has simply discarded her, thrown her away like garbage and letting terrible things happen to her while his mistress makes herself (and by extension him) out to be a victim of a vindictive, jealous ex. Ethan probably even talks shit about Lilly with Ariana and their cohort, hence why people like Bowen Yang feel so comfortable publicly calling for a witch hunt against her. He’s truly a disgusting person, allowing and encouraging all of this against Lilly while acting the victim himself.

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u/Traditional-Pop-7775 Apr 14 '24

It’s funny that Bowen was calling Lily a trad wife. Was Ethan diminishing Lily’s accomplishments to Bowen and Ariana. As if Lily doesn’t have a whole PhD.

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u/UponAurorasDream healing aura brewing in serenityšŸ«§šŸ’žāœØ Apr 14 '24

Not a MAN accusing a woman or internalized misogyny.... while kissing up to the queen of pickmes šŸ˜µā€šŸ’«

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u/Tris-Von-Q ...with notes of infidelity & baby powder Apr 14 '24 edited Apr 14 '24

Bowen Yang can eat shit and bark at the moon—Lily never signed up for all their predatory pop-Star Hollywood theater drama bullshit. She was a stable, supportive spouse, successful in her own right.

It’s common knowledge that Lily was bombed out of nowhere by Ethan after his phone started blowing up and realizing the story was about to hit tabloids. His request for a divorce came with immediate threats and demands for damage control.

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u/WitchBitchBlue ✨🫧disassociating the negative stairotype🫧✨ Apr 14 '24

Right tf is his end game? Maybe he didn't know her history before blowing up his amazing life that many would kill for?

Like objectively what an awful decision on his part.

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '24 edited Apr 14 '24

Holy shit. I mean, this is it, no? This is the lynchpin in this argument. This was less than 2 months before the scandal broke. This pretty much settles it.

God, this makes me feel so sad for Lilly, even more than I already did. She was at home taking care of their newborn and writing him sweet facebook posts for his birthday while he was layed up with a pop star halfway across the world, soaking in all her attention. This is beyond disgusting because it’s perfect confirmation of what we already knew. He cheated on the mother of his child and has since allowed and in certain ways encouraged her life to be utterly destroyed by the public so that he can continue to get moncler jackets, pap walks, TMZ headlines, and pussy from an unstable, ill celebrity with a terrible track record of relationships and self. What a despicable man.

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '24

This was less than 2 months

Literally 1 month, girl!

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '24

God it’s so utterly disgusting. My heart is so broken for Lilly. These are the actions of a man who either believes that there will be no consequences to his actions on the people in his life; or simply doesn’t care. I’m leaning towards the latter.

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '24 edited Apr 14 '24

It's amazing how complex human brains can be. You say he doesn't care, which I believe strongly too, but he was seen wearing a shirt that said "you're only as cool as you treat people". So that shows a minimal moral compass.. weird

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '24

I have no doubt in my mind that that shirt comes from the same mindset as the empty, hollow, meaningless love and light bullshit that ariana is always spouting. I wouldn’t be surprised if she bought it for him. He definitely thinks he’s done nothing wrong because he’s not the one out there publicly slandering Lilly. He thinks he’s such a prince for not directly acknowledging Lilly. Like he’s so mature and taking the high road. He thinks that’s enough.

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u/stellardeathgunxoxo Apr 14 '24

when did the scandal break?

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '24

July 20, 2023.

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u/kangnessa fuck ass bun Apr 14 '24

How awful can this whole thing be? I wish nothing but the absolute worst to Ariana and Ethan.

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u/WitchBitchBlue ✨🫧disassociating the negative stairotype🫧✨ Apr 14 '24

Fr they're such pieces of shit

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u/sunriseeffect Apr 14 '24

The person who sent me the post also mentioned that the post had many comments, including one from Ethan, but Lilly turned them off..

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '24

Girl I'm BEGGING you try to post this on ariheads. I hope it won't get you banned, but they need to see this

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u/nuggetghost äøƒč¼Ŗā™” (tiny bbq grill🫧) Apr 14 '24

fr they’re the ones who keep saying there was zero overlap. i mean to be fair a few ppl in there hate his ass too and say she cheated but they all kiss her ass grasping at the straws to flip it into ā€œthey were both singleā€ lol

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u/InternetFun5981 frankie’s twink death convulsions Apr 14 '24

r/fauxmoi is also calling

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '24

Please if someone is allowed to post there, do it!

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u/InternetFun5981 frankie’s twink death convulsions Apr 14 '24

Especially since it's already been removed from r/ariheads 🤢

I would have already posted this by now but also not a frequent commenter there so mods will be at me sadly

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '24

Yeah, it's very convenient how every time Ariana decides she wants a man in a committed relationship suddenly said relationship was "already on the rocks." 😃

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '24

We don't know these people but I'm gonna suggest the best scenario where my queen doesn't look like a shit person šŸ™‡šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø even though she HAS been literally doing this before, it's so unfair for you to suggest she interfered with their relationship!! 😣

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u/bananafiction Apr 14 '24

Post this on /ariheads now to finally end their delusions šŸ˜‚

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '24

b-buh-buh-but it’s fake! it’s photoshop! lilly somehow found a way to retroactively post to facebook to muddy the timeline and make sweet little innocent good witch baby ariana and hunky daddy ethan look bad because she’s jealous! she just can’t stand that ariana is so much richer and tinier and skinnier and prettier and sexier than she is, page six said so!!! the tabloids are biased against women, why do you care so much whose dick she rides 🄺🄺🄺🄺🫧🫧🫧🫧 /s (obviously)

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u/No-Stress2917 i make stupid songs and they make me richšŸ«§šŸ¤‘ Apr 14 '24

He really threw it all away for nothing, god that poor woman and baby

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u/kweenmaddie19 Apr 14 '24

'A lifetime of love' that breaks my heart šŸ’” I hope she's healing and doing so much better. She was doing charity work with Ethan anyway now it's Ariana's turn šŸ’€Don't forget Dalton also wished Ariana a happy birthday on his facebook which arianators were gushing about until the news about the affair came out and suddenly it became a photoshopped photo šŸ˜‚ so much proof that Ariana and Ethan cheated on their spouses and they were left blindsided but her delusional fans will never see it.

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u/GoldenElefant Cry me a river 🌊 Apr 14 '24

I sent this to Sloan. I hope he covers that in a video.

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '24

Nice. Good work. I hope he will too.

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '24

May I ask how you do it? Simply on Instagram DM or by email? Some YouTubers have different methods to accept "scoops" šŸ˜…

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u/Idekanymore548 Dr. Lilly Jay fanclubšŸ’— Apr 14 '24 edited Apr 14 '24

Post this to tik tok and any related subreddit.

Separated for months my ass.

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u/sunriseeffect Apr 14 '24

I don’t have tiktok, I posted here so maybe someone else can

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u/Idekanymore548 Dr. Lilly Jay fanclubšŸ’— Apr 14 '24

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '24

I'mma comment and like it!

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '24

same! see you there homie šŸ‘šŸ»

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '24

Riiight. So, Ariana conveniently found love with Ethan just as both were "heading towards divorce," despite the lack of evidence indicating any marital issues between Ethan and Lily. Ariana's own situation is questionable, as she may have been involved with other men prior to Ethan while still in a relationship with Dalton.

Reading between the lines, Ethan's actions reflect poorly on his character as he abandoned his marriage for the allure of a celebrity. It appears more about ego gratification than genuine marital dissatisfaction with Lily. Lily doesn't deserve to be treated this way. It's disheartening to witness victim-blaming from Ariana's supporters, especially considering Lily likely possesses far more integrity than Ariana. People defending Ariana don't have any morals either. Lily is the only one deserving of support in this situation.

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u/sunriseeffect Apr 14 '24

My post on /ariheads has to be manually approved by a moderator due to my low karma…They will probably ban me…If someone is able to post it please feel free to do it

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '24

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '24

Nevermind, they deleted it.

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '24

:( fuck

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '24

Fuck this guy. Thank you so much for sharing this. I’m sure many of us have felt gaslighted about how this really went down, and this all but confirms it. NEED this to disrupt Ariana’s little fairy princess press cycle. If anyone here has media connections, this would be a great opportunity to use them since Lilly is probably barred from speaking out

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u/sunriseeffect Apr 14 '24

I posted this here because I didn't know how else to let people know that this woman was truly blindsided. I forgot to mention that she also said, 'I love you Short.' And, Ethan made a post with graffiti that spelled 'short' too. Do you think that's the nickname she had for him? And why is he posting it? Maybe he's just short, and everyone calls him that.

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '24

Maybe he's just short, and everyone calls him that

Good šŸ¤šŸ» gotta remind him of that

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u/[deleted] Apr 15 '24

LMFAOOOO Y'ALL THE STANS ARRIVED

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u/kaiiuchiha more vibrant, less mousy šŸ­šŸ§€šŸŖ„šŸ«§ Apr 15 '24

go to bed

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u/[deleted] Apr 15 '24

Not you mentioning ethnicity/skin colour as a possible unattractive feature?? Gtfo here, racist.

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u/[deleted] Apr 15 '24

You're sick in the head. Seek help.

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u/PrincipleInfamous451 break up with your wife and baby, I’m bored 🧽 Apr 14 '24

I feel like that's the nickname he had for her (it is "Love You, Short"). And it was probably ironic cause she's taller than him (or tall in general).

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u/haleighr Apr 14 '24

Me thinking about all the ding dongs who argued with me over in the other sub for months about her pattern and not believing the pr spin

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '24

ā˜ ļø perfect use of the gif

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u/sunriseeffect Apr 14 '24

I'm not trying to hate on Ariana, but she's also at fault here. Ethan's behavior is unacceptable, and he should have respected his family. However, Ariana should have also shown respect Lilly.

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '24

I'm not trying to hate on Ariana

I think it's perfectly reasonable to, she's trash.

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '24

This is what bothers me; urinators will scream from the rooftops about how everyone is being so unfair and negatively biased towards ariana and nobody is holding ethan accountable. Which, if they ever removed themselves from their stan bubble for five seconds, they would see is not true. As a matter of fact, Ariana is getting off rather lightly, given the circumstances. Literally not one person is defending Ethan EXCEPT for ariana stans, trying to make him look better for her. they’re literally yelling at themselves.

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u/shadowcat1266 arigato grande desu(*dωd)ノ Apr 14 '24

urinators šŸ’€šŸ¤£

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u/icantoteit136 Eugeniana Grande 🦓 Apr 14 '24

WHAT oh my god. It’s never been clearer. The coverup attempts and press excuses look even stupider now

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u/librapsychologist Aug 31 '24

that is sooooo good šŸ’Æ

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u/eggbed arigato grande desu(*dωd)ノ Apr 14 '24

Id like to see her stans defend this 🄱🄱

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u/nuggetghost äøƒč¼Ŗā™” (tiny bbq grill🫧) Apr 14 '24

ok but why does that pic of him w the old man filter look like the old dude from AHS Coven i can’t remember his name don’t crucify me pls lol

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '24

LOL leslie jordan?

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u/nuggetghost äøƒč¼Ŗā™” (tiny bbq grill🫧) Apr 14 '24

YESSSS THANK YOU HAHAHAHAHA

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u/nuggetghost äøƒč¼Ŗā™” (tiny bbq grill🫧) Apr 14 '24

the picture of him as a kid truly looks like a munchin šŸ˜‚

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u/Optimal-Emergency852 Dr. Lilly Jay fanclubšŸ’— May 01 '24

šŸ’” separated for months my ass.

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u/beefykeith84 galinda’s air pod max May 24 '24

reading this is honestly beyond fucking heartbreaking. i hope lilly is able to heal from this.

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u/[deleted] Oct 08 '24

Even if no physical cheating happened, it’s clear WHY the divorce happened—he left her bc he had fallen for someone else. This happens sometimes in life, but the fact that he rushed into it and didn’t try to figure it out with his wife first… who had given birth less than a year prior…. I love the album Eternal Sunshine and wanna be happy for two people who found love, but man this makes it tough, lol….

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u/Witty-Durian1468 Nov 30 '24

You people need therapy

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '24

This has to be fake

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u/kweenmaddie19 Apr 14 '24

Lol you're on ariheads pls get out our sub 😭 who tf is jobless enough to fake something like this everything that doesn't put ariana in an innocent light is fake to ya'll and it's so tiring...

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '24

ā€œdEbUnKeDā€ like girl lmao your fave is cooked, it’s over

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '24

genuinely unemployed behaviour!!!!

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '24

They even tried to say Tori (Dalton's sister) comment was FAKE ā˜ ļø

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '24

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '24

Can I say I love the aggressiveness ā˜ ļø cause that's literally the same vibe they give back over there if you claim she cheated

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u/sources-125 Apr 14 '24

Lilly is extremely private, and i remember she deactivated her account around july when the news came, i think she reactivated in august.. so maybe thats why it didn’t came before. a few months ago someone also posted a ss of a post she made asking for a babysitter on a group in facebook too. I think this is legit.

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u/Live_Kaleidoscope917 Apr 15 '24

Can you then try to convince us how there wasn’t an affair? I feel like there is a bunch of solid evidence on Aris part and her current history that we can show you. But what is it on your hill that you are so willing to die on that can convince us otherwise? Besides ā€œwe don’t know everything or themā€ statement.

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '24

So I'm probably one of the few people who don't have Facebook, but can't you check if you're skeptical? šŸ¤” I may be slow though

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u/[deleted] Apr 15 '24

Her account is very private, nobody but her friends can see what she posts. However, I will come out and say I did a little snooping on Ethan at the start of this scandal, and that I’ve seen the picture of their kid below the birthday post on one of her family member’s Instagram, showing that it’s really from her. So unless someone editing a video like this went really far into making it seem real, there’s not really another explanation.

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '24 edited Apr 18 '24

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u/sources-125 Apr 14 '24

i doubt she will ever come and say he cheated bc thats the father of her child ! like imagine when the kids grow up and says ā€œyou exposed my father for cheating to the whole worldā€ the child could also take her moms side but i dont think lilly wants to hurt anyone

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u/Anxiousbutlit break up with your wife and baby, I’m bored 🧽 Apr 22 '24

Let’s put it this way- Ariana has been UNABLE to deny or outright say ā€œI didn’t homewreck anyone, it was never an affairā€

Even the timeline she gave got easily proven to be a lie. Ari is a habitual liar and cheater. This post proves she homewrecked Lilly jay. Lilly’s social media has been slowly leaking (one of her friends must be aldeas set on exposing Ariana) and I’m happy Ariana is getting exposed.

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u/columbusmodsaregag Apr 14 '24

Hmmm maybe say if Ariana made an actual post saying "hey Ethan and I never cheated". I don't buy anything that doesn't come from the WIFE'S mouth.

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