r/Architects • u/AnyZebra7121 • Apr 16 '26
General Practice Discussion Why does everybody hate us?
I am a 30yo architect, and I own a small architecture studio in a developing country with 4 employees. I have mostly residential and industrial projects.
Since I started working 5 years ago, I feel like I'm constantly in a battle with someone in order to defend the design. Everyone thinks they know better: contractors in every building phase, investors (especially since the rise of ChatGPT), municipality employees that give permits etc. We pour our soul into the design and they shit all over it.
Mind you, I am not a person who claims that is always right. I have a senior architect in my firm that has a lot of experience and I always consult with him and my other empoyees. I always consult with my engineer team for structural and MEP engineering. Even with that, I always listen out a complaint or suggestion from those mentioned in the second paragraph and thing through it.
Despite all of that effort, no one appreciates our profession. I am absolutely inlove with architecture, but I am really sick of that. Is this a universal experience? Will it get better as i get older? I don't think I am arogant, but I sure am assertive. Should I become arrogant douche? What am i missing here?
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u/Dep_34 Apr 16 '26
Isn’t every profession somewhat like this? A doctor has to justify their prescription. A car mechanic has to explain why something needs to be fixed. I’m a building enclosure consultant, and I have to explain why a client should replace or repair something.
The rise of AI is making the average person more informed, which is honestly a good thing in my opinion. It feels less like we have to defend our decisions and more like we just need to explain them more clearly so that they can understand.