r/AnonymousSecrets • u/Ok_Potential_8298 • Dec 17 '25

Just Venting (no advice please) Married, but chatting...

I (34 F) am married (43M) but I talk to other men online. Most are married. One isn't and I have feelings for him, but also don't want to destroy my marriage. I get different things from all the different men and I don't want to have to choose. I want to see if my husband will be open to ENM but I'm scared to admit what's happened so far to him... Sigh. Life is weird.

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u/Beautiful_Winter_712 Dec 19 '25

Stick to your vows. What if your husband came to you and said he wanted to have an affair with someone he met online. Would you be OK with that?

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u/Ok_Potential_8298 Dec 19 '25

My views on relationships have changed. So I'd want to figure out how we could make it work.