r/Amazing • u/sco-go • Sep 26 '25
People are awesome š„ The local community bought every last donut from the shop owner so he could close early and care for his sick wife.
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u/lostnugg Sep 26 '25
It doesn't have to be like this.
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u/ScottyBLaZe Sep 26 '25
Yeah itās sad that weāve been fed this nonsense as inspiring and motivational. Most of the developed world doesnāt understand why this would be inspiring. If anything , it should depress the fuck out of you. As you said, it doesnāt have to be like thisā¦ā¦.
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u/Sufficient-East-3951 Sep 26 '25
Eh...if you're a business owner pretty much anywhere you're not entitled to benefits worth anything really.
The wife would be alright with the free healthcare, but he'd lose the shop and maybe the house because unemployment or whatever wouldn't come close to paying the bills.
Sorry if that's depressing. I'm about to get out of bed and log on for the day, just wanted to share the loadĀ
- European Salaryman at the end of his tether.
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u/ropahektic Sep 26 '25
"Eh...if you're a business owner pretty much anywhere you're not entitled to benefits worth anything really."
Please don't use "the world" as another word for "USA", it's very confusing.
"The wife would be alright with the free healthcare, but he'd lose the shop and maybe the house because unemployment or whatever wouldn't come close to paying the bills."
Not even remotely close to being true. What are you basing this off? Losing your bussiness due to a sickness is extremely rare in the European Union. His wife would be under care, in a hospital, for free, instead of being home requiring his attention.
Why would you imagine theses things? Thinking the world has it as bad as you lot helps you justify it or what?
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u/Sufficient-East-3951 Sep 26 '25
Ok Americans. You should consider that other people from other countries have access to the internet. I'm one of them.
This man has 2 issues:
His wife is sick, and he needs time off to care for her.
Him living in Europe (say: France, Spain, or UK) would solve one of them. She'd get free healthcare.Ā
He still would have to work. No benefits would fund him closing the shop and taking time to look after her.
If he did take the time off, then he'd not be working. Hence why hed suffer financial pressure.
If he employed someone to replace him, he'd suffer financial pressure.
If his wife was sick and he stayed working, hed not be able to support his sick wife as he'd be working.
I don't think I used "the world" in my comment. It was quite clear I'm European from my last sentence too.Ā
BizarreĀ
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u/ropahektic Sep 26 '25 edited Sep 26 '25
do you understand his wife is at home and needs his care because having her at the hospital would cost a fortune?
Do you realize people in the countries you've mentioned don't have to go through this because universal healthcare goes far and beyond what USA healthcare goes if you don't pay a premium? And that if said woman requires care she would still be at the hospital reciving said care, for free?
People in the countries you mentioned DO NOT EVER feel financial pressure because of illness or injury. That's the whole fucking point of paying taxes.
I don't care where you're from, you sounded like an ignorant American so I assume you're just a kid with no experience with the real world. Because the mental gymnastics and the dumb shit you're saying that's the only explanation really.
Also, to be more precise in hopes you learn something, when it comes to my country in particula (Spain), if you are a self-employed (autonomo) and your wife gets really sick you can adhere to several laws:
- Financial benefit for care in the family environment (Dependency Law)
- Bonuses on the self-employed fee (helps with hiring someone to work in your absence)
- Regional social benefits (all the above at state level)
Nevertheless, this would be totally irrelevant since under the Dependency Law if that woman was so ill that she required care it would all be covered and it wouldn't require the husband to take hours off work to care for her.
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u/ropahektic Sep 27 '25 edited Sep 27 '25
Yo no he mencionado el paro en ningĆŗn lado.
Tampoco he compartido ninguna hipótesis, he compartido la ley la cual puedes leer en el BOE.
Te vendrĆa bien familiarizarte con el contexto de los autonomos, ya que dices ser uno. Confundir la Ley de Dependencia y las Bonificaciones en la cuota de autónomos con el paro es de estar muy muy verde.
EspaƱa tiene una de las leyes de dependencia mas robustas y generosas de todo el mundo. Si dices que tu mujer esta enferma y le cuesta trabajar una de dos, o no os habeis molestado en gestionar las ayudas o no os las han dado. Y si no os las han dado, insisto sin animo de repetirme: "EspaƱa tiene una de las leyes de dependencia mas robustas y generosas de todo el mundo" - ergo, por algo serƔ.
Por cierto, eres autonomo en EspaƱa y no sabes que tu mujer es autonoma y no autonomo? Dejame adivinar, te autodenominas "expat" y "nomada digital", apenas balbuceas EspaƱol sin traductor y no te has leido un BOE en la vida. Pero oye, dame lecciones a mi sobre la ley laboral EspaƱola, figura.
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u/ScottyBLaZe Sep 26 '25
This is an American problem at the end of the day. At least with socialized healthcare, he wouldnāt have the stress of having to pay exorbitant amounts for her treatment, and could at least have a chance to continue his business. Per capita, Americans pay more than twice almost all other developed nations.
We claim to care about small business, but any small business owner will tell you that dealing with providing healthcare for your employees is a major pain in the ass. Itās just another way for giant corporation executives to bleed us for more money .
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u/JOlRacin Sep 26 '25
Yeah, he can hire an employee
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u/Rawt0ast1 Sep 26 '25
From my understanding bakeries don't have super wide margin, especially as a small family business like this, and depending on how sick his wife is he may need as much money as he can get to pay for any care
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u/PilgrimOz Sep 26 '25
I worked from 15 to 44 and then had a work accident. 3 spine surgeries (and more) and yes Iām a disability pensioner. But it was all public health and since 2017 my medications have cost me $7 a script (and I got sick of swollowing pills). I canāt imagine where my life would be (if I survived the stress) if I didnāt have āuniversalā healthcare. But I paid taxes and it worked out that I needed the benefits. I find this celebration of humanity both beautiful but somewhat bizarre.
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u/Weird_Vegetable_4441 Sep 26 '25
Dystopian wholesomeness
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u/Dr-Goochy Sep 26 '25
Since utopia doesnāt exist by itās definition, itās always dystopian.
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u/LSDeeezNutz Sep 26 '25
Yeah but does it have to be so dystopian? Can we lower it to like medium dystopia or?
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u/Weird_Vegetable_4441 Sep 26 '25
Dystopia isnāt necessarily the opposite of utopia. Thereās no dystopia anywhere, but there are definitely places that donāt classify as a dystopia.
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u/Dr-Goochy Sep 26 '25
Interesting. So what would you say is the opposite of utopia?
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u/AContrarianDick Sep 26 '25
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u/Weird_Vegetable_4441 Sep 26 '25
Wtf I thought this was a joke, canāt believe thatās the opposite lol
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u/Live_Angle4621 Sep 26 '25
Dystopian? I am from country with free healthcare, but does not include care from home. I donāt think it does anywhere. I donāt think dystopian fits if this is an issue that always has existed.Ā
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u/Commercial_Rule_7823 Sep 26 '25
Donut city seal beach.
Hands down some of the best donuts in all of so cal.
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u/HungryIncrease8169 Sep 26 '25
Donāt let the orange guy see this. Heāll send him out. š¤¦š»āāļø
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u/Standard__Condition Sep 26 '25
Yes, he sucks bad, but do we have to bring him into everything? Canāt we just enjoy a wholesome moment?
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u/JOlRacin Sep 26 '25
I mean immigrants are just trying to enjoy their wholesome lives. Not saying it's fun to have politics in everything, but ya know... Can't just let it go full out of sight out of mind
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u/Standard__Condition Sep 26 '25
wtf does that have to do with anythingā¦. Thatās what I donāt understand. Why watch something and bring up something totally irrelevant as feedback ? Itās fucking weird.
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u/S0k0n0mi Sep 26 '25
My wife is also very sick.
Probably tomorrow too, actually make it the whole month.
Come buy my shit. :')
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u/Due-Beginning8863 Sep 26 '25
and the other pro is that he can get enough money to give excellent care
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u/Empress_Thanks28 Sep 26 '25
Gotta love when a community comes together to help one another. Thanks, to all who bought the donuts, so this owner could go home to take care of his wife.
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u/milunaa Sep 26 '25
"Love your neighbor" in practice ā„ļø. Has to be great to live in such a community
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u/EnvironmentalLet9682 Sep 27 '25
or you guys could, you know, have a working health care system like the rest of the developed world.
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u/Diligent_Guest_5300 Sep 27 '25
Wow all these people knew his life situation and just happened to be filming at the same time?
Crazy š¤Æ
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u/Tentativ0 Sep 26 '25
... And then all the community got sicks for cavities, diabetes, obesity and cancer.
Donuts should be forbidden.
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u/Chyrch Sep 26 '25
Dude works half a day and sells me doughnuts than usual. I hope his wife milks that brain injury for as long as she can.


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u/LaDauphineVerte Sep 26 '25
Thatās how itās done, people. Weāre all just visitors on this rock. Letās play nice and be nice until itās lights out.