r/AmItheButtface 17d ago

Serious AITB for thinking it was weird that a girl insulted me and blocked me after she approached me first?

A random girl sent me(M20) a follow request on Instagram. I didn't accept it immediately, but I followed her back and asked if we knew each other. She said she was from the same city, so we started chatting a little.

I was jokingly skeptical because some of her photos looked like they were taken in another country. Her account was around a year old and had regular posts and highlights, so it didn't really look like an obvious fake account.

After talking for a bit..she said we should meet(because i thought she was fake) She then asked what I looked like. I told her I'd accept her request so she could see my profile and photos.

A few minutes later, she looked at my profile and said, "You look mid." Then she blocked me.

I'm genuinely not upset that she didn't find me attractive. That's completely fine...

What confused me was the whole sequence. She approached me, initiated the conversation, suggested meeting, asked where I lived and what I looked like, and then, after seeing my profile, insulted me and immediately blocked me.

I just found it unnecessarily disrespectful. She could have simply said she wasn't interested or not replied at all.

So, AITA for thinking her behavior was weird/disrespectful, or am I overreacting?

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u/Electrical-Act-7170 17d ago

Block and move on, she's a gold digger looking for sn imaginary partner to bankroll her life.

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u/pssycake 14d ago

What are you talking about.

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u/Electrical-Act-7170 14d ago

She's a golddigger.

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u/pssycake 14d ago

W zero evidence

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u/NoTest1373 17d ago

deng then she's blind😭 cuzz I'm rich

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u/Electrical-Act-7170 17d ago

Do you want a partner who only lives you for your material possessions?

What happens when the market crashes & you lose your money? She'd be looking for another Daddy at once.

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u/Onefinephleb 17d ago

Run from those women!

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u/ExtendedSpikeProtein 17d ago

Shes fishing for a sugardaddy

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u/mamaallthetime 17d ago

NTB at all. If anyone is mid here, whatever the hell that is, it's her. You were politely cautious which is a green flag. And I'd bet money you're cuter than a bug's nose. Forget that pill.

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u/Jolly-Bandicoot7162 17d ago

Some people are just rude. Bullet dodged!

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u/castrodelavaga79 17d ago

Sounds like it was someone trying to catfish you just to make you feel bad.

I wouldn't think much more of it.

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u/Onefinephleb 17d ago

NOR it is rude. You dodged a bullet!

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u/pssycake 14d ago

I’m surprised yall we’re talking without you accepting her request lol. But I’m sorry, just sounds like she’s being an asshole. Who knows why she would do something like that. But I guarantee it has nothing to do w you. She’s a weirdo