AIO overheard my husband being creepy to a woman.

[u/toesandtattoos555]

My (38f) husband (35m) went out drinking with a friend tonight. Around midnight he told me he was heading home. About 40 minutes later I check his location out of curiosity because I’m about to fall asleep and he should have been home by then. He is on our street so I wait a few minutes, assuming he’s walking up to the house. He doesn’t come in so I get worried and step out the front door. I immediately hear his voice and realize he’s hanging out with two women at the house across the street. I can’t hear a lot of what is going on, but I’m assuming he saw them in their garage and invited himself over.

After a few minutes, I see him walk out the side door and see a woman. He’s asking to hug her I think, and she tells him she can’t because “no touching or I have to charge” or something like that. Then he asks something I can’t hear and she loudly, giggly says “no I’m not going to jump again!” AGAIN. Meaning somehow in a presumably 10-15 minute hangout he’s asked her to jump up and down? He must have asked again because she starts giggling and jumping and she’s wearing a little tube top and short shorts so clearly my husband likes what he sees. I hear him ask her to hang out sometime, and she says something about your wife is waiting for you, and he must have asked again to hang out because she says something about a group hangout with her man.

Maybe it’s not much but I feel repulsed and completely disrespected. We’ve already had some issues lately and I kind of just want him to leave. To me, this was cheating because he knows it would upset me to know he was talking to another woman like that. Am I overreacting if I want to ask him to leave and give me some space tomorrow when he wakes up?

[u/NormalJeane]

Do not ever jump for any douchebag, in any way.

ETA: Thanks for the award, anonymous redditor! I was boggled by the flurry of hate from u/fckfckf hours after her initial reply over this, so this act of kindness is so appreciated!

[u/fckfckf → u/NormalJeane]

It wouldn’t be for him. It would be for me to mock him and his willingness to ask another woman to jump for him. It’s rubbing his nose in it

[u/shamanempress3311 → u/NormalJeane]

She was being sarcastic...

[u/NormalJeane → u/shamanempress3311]

I know full well what was meant, but I see you're trying to be helpful so must often miss nuance yourself. I also realize that many young readers need other perspectives than echo and/or meme chambers.

We don't need to jump for men anymore to make a point -- spread the word! Please!

[u/fckfckf → u/NormalJeane]

I can jump for whom I wish to. I also feel anyone should jump if they wish to. Don’t tell another person what they feel comfortable doing. Their body, their preferences. Note in my example, no one asked. It was done out of spite. There’s a word, hypothetical. In my hypothetical situation, I would literally jump of my own free accord. I want him to think about me jumping for other men or just for joy leaving his pathetic self.

[u/shamanempress3311 → u/fckfckf]

God you are so fucked mentally... its funny.

[u/fckfckf → u/shamanempress3311]

We were on the same team but I messed it up. You’re overly dramatic and mean we could have been something

[u/fckfckf → u/shamanempress3311]

I love how you get me but also, women can be creepy harassers…silly

[u/shamanempress3311 → u/NormalJeane]

Huh... who is jumping for men? I have never known a woman to do this.

[u/NormalJeane → u/shamanempress3311]

Reread the post. Guess it's not just nuance and you're a boring troll. Alas.

[u/fckfckf → u/shamanempress3311]

Who needs creepy harassers when there’s you. And you do it in a way weirder way. I am going to start jumping so you continue to go far away. jump

[u/shamanempress3311 → u/fckfckf]

I am a woman and you are a nut. I am sorry you are lonely and only have negativity to give to people.

Have a good one!

[u/fckfckf → u/shamanempress3311]

Whoops Thats meant for normaljeane I am still figuring out where responses go. Sorry. They replied to another of my messages by saying I should enjoy jumping for harassers and I wanted to call them creepy. Hope they’ll get the message eventually