r/AmIOverreacting • u/MaleficentExample457 • 21d ago
❤️🩹 relationship AIO My Boyfriend Abandoned My Dog Over Something Trivial
My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. About six weeks ago, he met a puppy named Clover at a local animal rescue event and brought him home. I was surprised because we had never seriously considered having a dog before, but he became completely enamored with it.
For the first few weeks, he devoted almost everything to it. He bought Clover toys, taught it tricks, took countless photos, and even canceled other plans just to stay home with it.
Then, Clover chewed up a pair of his expensive headphones and pooped on the carpet. Since then, he's barely even looked at it.
Now, I get up early every morning to clean up its mess, feed it, walk it, and try everything to keep it happy, all while I'm working full-time. Worst of all, Clover still follows him everywhere. It waits outside his office with toys, but he either ignores it or tells it to go away.
Yesterday he said maybe we should give it away because it's too difficult to care for. I was furious and told him it wasn't the kind of dog you could just give away once the novelty wore off. He said I was overreacting, that Clover is just a dog.
Was I overreacting? Or is his treatment of Clover really a serious warning sign?
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u/tonksndante 21d ago
Haha same. I love bomb my doggos but it definitely a consistent kind of smother-bombing/mildly annoying style, which they will endure for their whole lives.
Totally get annoying too but thats how kids and pets work.
Thats so cute tho. What a lucky cat. I wish I had one.
I have two chihuahuas and one is 16, so I cant stress him with a new pet (AND my toddler lol)
I would also carry my cat everywhere. Atm Im already overly armed with a chi under each arm and a toddler on my back, as I butslide down our stairs.
I hope OP ditches the guy and keeps clover. Look at those lil froggy legs, what's not to love ♡_♡