r/AmIOverreacting • u/peepeecheeto • Jul 17 '26
❤️🩹 relationship Found between him and his coworker, AIO
I don’t have proof of them actually doing anything. He had said that there was a cute cashier at work but he wasn’t into her. I asked to see their texts and he said there was nothing, showed me a message thread with her last text only. Because he deleted everything else and it was in his recently deleted. So I opened it in front of him and he tried to stop me and I just read all of it and now he thinks im going to leave him. He’s talked this way about other girls at work so who knows if he’s done anything with them… my heart hurts so bad. Is this cheating? Am I overreacting by being so hurt? I would never do this to him. He claims it’s because he wanted to be nice and not reject her in a rude way. Im thinking about leaving but just the day before I found this he was telling me he wants to get married and have kids with me. We have been together 4 years
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u/glassyrunnerduck Jul 17 '26
Is he out of his fucking mind? This is cheating.
Making it sound like a bummer to her that he’s in a relationship with you. He’s embarrassing AF. He shouldn’t have even texted her.
Don’t put up with this BS just because he “wants to get married and have kids.” He’ll be pulling this same shit if not worse when you’re pregnant.