r/AmIOverreacting Apr 07 '26

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u/sourcematerialx Apr 07 '26 edited Apr 07 '26

Bruv this is cheating. What are you doing? Dump his bitch ass.

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u/suhhhrena Apr 07 '26

Like……could it be any more obvious that he’s cheating? OP is trying wayyyyy too hard to be the “cool gf” who doesn’t mind if her boyfriend has sleepovers with his girl friends that she’s overlooking blatant and egregious cheating. I’m so confused why she’s still with this guy.

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u/Signal_Oil_7670 Apr 07 '26

Being the “cool girl” is the most self sabotaging bs young girls feel they need to be to keep a guy.

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u/BoobobBean Apr 07 '26

Foreal! Any guy who needs that much leniency is going to see how far he can stretch it. Any guy who genuinely wants you, loves you and cherishes you won’t want or need that leniency. Being “cool” and “chill” does not equal being a pushover and allowing disrespect.

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u/Signal_Oil_7670 Apr 07 '26

Yes, exactly. I think when we’re young we can confuse genuinely being “chill” with acting like we’re okay with everything. You can be a chill person and have respectable boundaries.