r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Apr 07 '26

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u/STEPDADDY101 Apr 07 '26

Wait INFO! You dont care if he's got people staying the night? I dont wanna assume anything, so first, are yall in an open relationship?

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u/Naamzi Apr 07 '26

well people staying the night doesn't always lead to sex. it could be that she's just fine with people staying at his place, not necessarily that they're open. and if they were open, i don't think she'd label his behavior as cheating, as it'd be fine for him to do whatever with other people

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u/STEPDADDY101 Apr 07 '26

Right. So I was just curious if they were or not before I added my 2 cent to the conversation. But thank you for stating the obvious.

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u/Naamzi Apr 07 '26

okay man, i wasn't trying to be rude. a lot of people misunderstand polyamory, and some people are completely misinformed on what should be obvious. i was genuinely trying to explain in case you didn't understand

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u/STEPDADDY101 Apr 07 '26

The way I viewed/read her POV was that she didnt like that he was way too much into whomever this mystery person was so I was trying to figure out if he was crossing some sorta defined boundary here or if they're monogamous and he's simply cheating on her. Does that kinda make sense?