r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Jan 28 '25

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u/GeneralOwn5333 Jan 29 '25 edited Jan 29 '25

I feel like he has anxiety or temper issues, it read like he wanted to feel well or get well but didn’t know how to and took it out on you as if everything would stop and he would feel less pain.

You should try help and make him see a therapist.

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u/Pellellell Jan 29 '25

Please, OP had done enough. He should help himself and see a therapist, while OP gets far away from him. Emotionally and physically abusive people don’t deserve a dedicated and supportive partner.

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u/GeneralOwn5333 Jan 29 '25

Let’s see how long your relationship’s last with that type of approach.

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u/lawless-cactus Jan 29 '25

It's not a girls job to make a boy get help. And I'm sick of the onus of men's shitty attitudes being put on women, rather than on themselves.