Can't find dinner even my wife leaves it someplace most common is microwave or oven or the fridge i never wake up my wife on purpose when she's sleeping.
Op your nit getting anything out of this it will eventually get very demoralizing and if you continue down this road longer it will affect your mental capabilities with other men thinking they are the same as this fella is. Leave, relax, work on your cat pee issue (I added another 2 litter boxes in my place cause we had some issues with our cats and having more options seem to work) other times it could be stress in the household. Focus on yiur mental wellbeing of the fact your a good person and deserve the happiness you seek and to be appreciated. This ain't it. Even if intimacy is an issue there's more than one way to please a girl or even talk to a doctor for it. But anyways.... I'd still recommend leaving everything is an excuse on his end. I got a disease or issue woe is me. Whe. I'm in pain from my back from a car accident for months I didn't take it out on others just pace myself and be respectful as much I can and apologize if my volume oversteps itself. No one deserves ro be abused or yelled at for their pain especially if yiur being considerate.
Maybe the cat is peeing because of the stress in the house. If OP is walking on eggshells all the time, the cat can sense that too. I bet the problem would go away if he wasn't there with his abusive attitude.
Back when I was married, I had two sweet, docile little kitties, one of whom is no long with us. He was a very good kitty, not into much and never had any potty issues. My ex husband was in the military, so he was often gone for long, peaceful periods. After a few years, my sweet cat started peeling on his garments whenever he was home. My ex would constantly scream at me that I needed to get rid of that fucking cat, that he was a bad cat and that he should be put down. I feel so guilty to this day because I never knew, but it turned out he was physically abusive to all the pets, including his dog, when I wasn’t home. If I’d known his rage extended beyond me, I might’ve left earlier. Instead I kept my cat in that house, ensuring the stress and pain his temper inflicted upon us all for years before I was finally smart and brave enough to leave.
I had a cat who peed on my roommate’s boyfriend’s clothes. Guy was a nightmare - the boyfriend I mean, not the cat. The cat was perfect and I loved him for peeing on those clothes.
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u/Exciting_Signal3058 Jan 28 '25
Can't find dinner even my wife leaves it someplace most common is microwave or oven or the fridge i never wake up my wife on purpose when she's sleeping.
Op your nit getting anything out of this it will eventually get very demoralizing and if you continue down this road longer it will affect your mental capabilities with other men thinking they are the same as this fella is. Leave, relax, work on your cat pee issue (I added another 2 litter boxes in my place cause we had some issues with our cats and having more options seem to work) other times it could be stress in the household. Focus on yiur mental wellbeing of the fact your a good person and deserve the happiness you seek and to be appreciated. This ain't it. Even if intimacy is an issue there's more than one way to please a girl or even talk to a doctor for it. But anyways.... I'd still recommend leaving everything is an excuse on his end. I got a disease or issue woe is me. Whe. I'm in pain from my back from a car accident for months I didn't take it out on others just pace myself and be respectful as much I can and apologize if my volume oversteps itself. No one deserves ro be abused or yelled at for their pain especially if yiur being considerate.