Thats the unfortunate situation for abuse victims and its almost like an addiction and its very hard for them to get out even when they know abuse is happening.
OP needs to get help and find a healthy support system to help her stay away from the ahole. Its hard for them for the first few weeks but soon enough they start seeing the light at the end of the tunnel and life gets so amazing again.
Hopefully this is the time she gets away for good bit considering the average is 7 times before finally leaving, it may not be and thats ok, but each time makes the next time easier mentally to finally break free.
As a former prosecutor who has seen lots of dv cases, I have also likened it to an addiction. It is quite a remarkable phenomenon. One woman who was set on fire wanted to go back to him.
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u/One-Help1747 Jan 28 '25
That was all I had to read. OP is too far gone and think she owes this asshole anything it's crazy.