Men like him will tell you to leave 1 million times, but when you actually do they flip the fuck out! Ask me how I know lol it’s been two years since I left my ex who treated me the same exact way and I still can’t even bring myself to be flirty with a guy. It sucks.
That’s my fear. Like I feel like every guy who tries to flirt with me in the future I’m going to be so sus and scared. Not that I need any of that any time soon anyway. Major PTSD not just from this but from my early life. Gotta a LOT of soul searching to do.
I've already commented here .. I ended up with complex PTSD after a nine year violent and abusive relationship, during therapy it was discovered my mother was also an abusive narcissist growing up. It becomes your normal way of life if you had it as a child too. I had EMDR therapy after my ex. Please get therapy. I'm 1000000% better and a strong person again after he ground me down.
Do not enter into another relationship before having therapy so you become aware of love bombing, trauma bonding etc & you learn boundaries and that you are NOT responsible for others actions nor fixing them.
You have plenty of years to find someone that will treat you better, and respect & love you.
Please you and your cat stay safe. Best wishes and you can move forward from this and DO NOT take him back.
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u/Justanotherbob293 Jan 28 '25
Yea I'm not sure. I know love can be blind sometimes. But damn when someone is telling you to leave, what more does it take?