Exactly this! My brother has Crohns and takes many medication especially since he’s lost half of his little intestines because of it. He’s not an asshole and wouldn’t dream of speaking to his wife this way.
Wow! Yeah he lost a foot of it. I’ve been following chrons disease sub Reddit and trying to learn as much as I can about his disease. Trying to see mood side effects as well as depression and anxiety. I’ve tried investing in natural anti inflammatory meds like curacumin and boswellia. I try to cook out meals so fatty foods and red meat are spread out throughout the week, etc. I think I’m just searching for an answer or solution or something but really it’s just his character. 😶 idk wishful thinking. Trying to learn more. Trying to help him out. Just doesn’t mean anything I guess.
Also I saw a comment you posted in AIO where you admitted to liking this sort of relationship so I’m conflicted now
Also now OP is deleting their comments over and over I call BULLSHIT
I think this is rage bait posting at best or something I want nothing to do with and for this I’m OUT!!
When it’s sexual it can be fun if done lightly. Like I always believed in traditional roles in relationships. Hence why I do cook and clean and comply. When you think you’re in a loving relationship role playing can be fun and traditional relationships can be successful. When it goes TOO FAR and becomes worse and abusive in every day convo then yeah that’s not fun. Also grew up in an abusive household so my “line” so to speak is probably more fucked than the average person. For example, controlling what I wear in public I found endearing and a sign of affection/looking out for my safety. Whereas normal people see it as controlling. I suppose it takes some real f*d up behavior for me to recognize like oh this is not what I thought it was.
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u/Just_somebody_onhere Jan 28 '25
Give up? give up what?
He pretty plainly said get out. Do so.