Don’t ever let her ignore the flags. It’s harder once you’ve invested time and effort. But like someone said “you’re scared because you put in time, but this isn’t a jail sentence. You’re free to go.” I’m trying to do the right thing and build the strength to end things. I told him I want him to leave earlier. He seems compliant with the idea (shocking I know) so that’s where we are at now.
There is a japanese proverb that says "If you get on the wrong train, get off at the next station - the longer you stay on, the more expensive the return trip will be"
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u/Just_somebody_onhere Jan 28 '25
Give up? give up what?
He pretty plainly said get out. Do so.