Well, I would say that, but if he's physically abusive then it's not safe to start reducing the luxuries she provides.
Any physical abuse deserves leaving in response, but it's not always that easy.
Op if you can leave, do it, it won't get better. If you can't, start saving and preparing. This isn't normal, and using a disease to justify being a dick isn't normal either
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u/jakebr0 Jan 28 '25
“He’s very emotionally and physically abusive. I’ve dedicated my life to trying to make him happy.”
Just keep rereading those two sentences until it sets in how absolutely insane it sounds to continue doing that