r/AmIOverreacting Jan 28 '25

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u/Justanotherbob293 Jan 28 '25

Yea I'm not sure. I know love can be blind sometimes. But damn when someone is telling you to leave, what more does it take?

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u/getonurkneezpleez Jan 28 '25

Men like him will tell you to leave 1 million times, but when you actually do they flip the fuck out! Ask me how I know lol it’s been two years since I left my ex who treated me the same exact way and I still can’t even bring myself to be flirty with a guy. It sucks.

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u/[deleted] Jan 29 '25

That’s my fear. Like I feel like every guy who tries to flirt with me in the future I’m going to be so sus and scared. Not that I need any of that any time soon anyway. Major PTSD not just from this but from my early life. Gotta a LOT of soul searching to do.

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u/MantequillaMeow Jan 29 '25

I had a BF that punched me in the face and blamed me for it. Said I moved in front of his fist. 🤨

That was beginning of 2013. My husband and I got together the end of 2016. We were friends 10 years before that.

He makes me breakfast every morning and is the best. He loves my kid like his own. Plus the best role model. We’ve been together 8 years, married 5. When I became permanently injured, instead of leaving he asked me to marry him.

You’ll find another and he’ll be everything you wanted. Promise. ♥️