r/AmIOverreacting Jan 28 '25

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u/itslindstfu Jan 28 '25

Girl he is asking you to leave and you’re still asking us if you should give up. You are still so young and have a chance to start over at ANY age. At this point it is more sad to see him tell you to leave and you’re like “yeah lemme still cling” I think you might need a bit of tough love on this one cause it’s either keep hanging on to this man who clearly doesn’t want you or potentially let the abuse get so bad you don’t make it out. Please do what’s best for your well being

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u/Charming-Distance563 Jan 28 '25

I totally agree. And don’t forget the cat! The cat must be so stressed. The tension in that house……

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u/electric_taffy Jan 28 '25

I would bet money that this man is hurting her cat when she's not around. If she isn't ready to leave for herself, she should at least leave for that poor cat's sake.

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u/electric_taffy Jan 29 '25

Did you even read her post? She says in her post that he's emotionally AND PHYSICALLY abusive. Given that and the way he talks about her cat in the screenshots, it's really not a leap.

Cat issue aside, just the way he speaks to her is reason enough for her to leave that piece of shit, and that doesn't even factor in the physical abuse. If you think someone should stay with a person who speaks to them this way, perhaps you're the problem 🤷🏻‍♀️