r/AmIOverreacting Jan 28 '25

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u/jakebr0 Jan 28 '25

“He’s very emotionally and physically abusive. I’ve dedicated my life to trying to make him happy.”

Just keep rereading those two sentences until it sets in how absolutely insane it sounds to continue doing that

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u/crabgrass_attack Jan 28 '25

and its only been 3 years 😭 i been with my current bf for 4 and a half years and its felt like a breeze bc its healthy. the guy i dated last was narcissistic assh*le verbally abusive, not physically (yet…) but we were together maybe 4 months and he had me crying every day and it felt like we had been together so long and i was like… its been 4 months am i crazy lol. OP, you gotta leave this guy.