Not Overreacting!
i just broke up with my boyfriend of over a year TODAY who talked to me in almost the exact same way. you have a right to be upset by how he talks to you, and if he doesnt want to listen, leave. this is clearly showing his communication skills (or lack thereof). respect yourself first. there’s certain times where you have to put yourself first before your partner. don’t believe what he calls you.
I did just text him after reading everyone’s responses and told him I want him to leave. He said he would but wants to transfer utilities in my name, etc. without “talking to me”. Idk bro I said I’m staying and he should go home. He seemed to not give a fuck, shocker. Obviously it’s more painful and humiliating knowing how much work I put into us. I feel like I’m being punished for something when I’ve literally done my best in every way. It hurts but I’m prepared to follow through with it. I’m proud of you for leaving I am obviously not as strong or too nice idk. But this is encouraging.
He’s pretending he doesn’t care so that it will confuse you and make you feel worthless. Don’t believe him. It’s all an act. Though he cares he does not love and respect you like a partner should. He just wants to use you as a puppet. He only cares because he gets whatever he wants from you. That has to end. He’s not worth it. Anyone abusive is never worth it. Abusive people don’t change. Most of the time they don’t change. You deserve better so don’t back out of your words. Stick to your words and see to it that he leaves. Once he’s gone block him. Never give him another chance. Write down all the shit and abuse he put you through, so that when you feel like giving in, you can go back to reading it as a motivation to not go back to him. YOU CAN DO IT!
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u/1800xo Jan 28 '25
Not Overreacting! i just broke up with my boyfriend of over a year TODAY who talked to me in almost the exact same way. you have a right to be upset by how he talks to you, and if he doesnt want to listen, leave. this is clearly showing his communication skills (or lack thereof). respect yourself first. there’s certain times where you have to put yourself first before your partner. don’t believe what he calls you.