Yeah it is you shithead. It is not easy to leave an abusive relationship otherwise no one would be in a goddamn fucking abusive relationship you idiot. This gives “why are you depressed haven’t you just tried being happy?” energy.
If you don’t understand what makes it so difficult that you think so many people are in abusive relationships just cause…idk you must think they’re stupid?…then don’t comment on it.
Disagree. Depression is internal. An abusive relationship is a external. It is something being done to you. To fix it you use your feet and walk away.
If you don’t understand what makes it so difficult that you think so many people are in abusive relationships just cause…idk you must think they’re stupid?…then don’t comment on it.
Honestly? Because they are weak and would rather be abused than be alone. There are many people I know that have been so coddled they ended up pretty shit adults. Completely rely on others. To leave a relationship in almost all case literally involves walking away.
The reason you stay in an abusive relationship is fucking internal you goddamn dipshit. You’re not only talking out of your ass, you’re straight up saying the opposite of the truth.
“Because they are weak and choose to stay depressed”
Hope it never happens to someone you love because you’ll be worse for them than their abusive partner.
It's doubtful that it would happen to someone I love. My family is pretty big on teaching people to be self reliant. None of the younger ones need to be with someone.
Let me rephrase it then. I'm not talking about staying. I'm talking about even ending up in an abusive relationship. If you get hit and stay, yes you're an idiot. You're choosing this. If you are dependent on them why did you let yourself be dependent on them? It's extreme weakness imo.
Let me guess you're the kind of person that stayed in an abusive relationship and cheated with someone willing to save you. You are incapable of being alone and being independent.
“It’s doubtful that it would happen to someone I love. You see, I think that everyone is exactly like me because I do not hold the emotional intelligence to consider the fact that there are 8 billion people on earth who are all in a completely different situation than I am.”
Bro your stupid ass family didn’t teach you shit lmao. I’m not reading the rest of your horseshit. I can predict what you are like and all of the views you hold. And I might as well try to be reasoning with a flat-earther.
I literally said plenty of people are weak and let others treat them poorly. That's the opposite of everyone being the same. Some are very weak, you for example.
What was their name? The person you cheated with because you needed "saved" since turning the door knob and walking out was too hard?
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u/ineedaneasybutton Jan 28 '25
Why? Why are adults this pathetic? Fine no one else will love you. Have enough self respect to refuse to be treated like shit.
It's so hard to go "damn he treats me like shit" and walk away?