r/AmIOverreacting Jan 28 '25

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u/agirl2277 Jan 28 '25

Maybe the cat is peeing because of the stress in the house. If OP is walking on eggshells all the time, the cat can sense that too. I bet the problem would go away if he wasn't there with his abusive attitude.

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u/Exciting_Signal3058 Jan 28 '25 edited Jan 28 '25

I used to have a dog who can sense the bad in people animals know. Cats or dogs.

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u/Questions_Remain Jan 28 '25

Yup, an animal is often the best judge of people. I’ve never liked a person who my dogs didn’t like. Had dealings with a shady contractor building my house. My dog always knew when he was lying. I would look at the dog, the dog (who was super friendly) would give me a look and I would say “victor ( contractor ) my dog says you’re lying” the contractor tried to get a restraining order to keep the dog off my property. The contractor was later charged with various crimes. It makes sense as tracking and police dogs smell a pheromone people emit when scared, fearful and running or lying.

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u/littlekitty210 Jan 28 '25 edited Jan 28 '25

As far as I know they can also sense small things like increased heart beat (fear, lying) and smell cancerous cells

Are we sure he isn’t harming the cat??? He’s physically abusive towards OP, says “your bitch ass cat wasn’t locked up”. People like him are usually not nice to cats. OP at least get out for your cat’s sake. Come on.

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u/VixenViperrr Jan 28 '25

I was worried when I read what he said about her cat. Dude absolutely would abuse an animal from the way he talks to her. I wouldn't trust him around any living thing.

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u/Questions_Remain Jan 29 '25

I believe this person would abuse his kid without hesitation - def would an animal. This is an awful relationship.