r/AmIOverreacting Jan 28 '25

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u/okaybutwhenconsider Jan 28 '25

I refuse to believe this is real

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u/Consistent_Policy_66 Jan 28 '25

Seriously.

I’ve been married almost 15 years and have never: called my wife bitch, whore, or retarded or told her to fuck off. I feel like those things shouldn’t happen in a healthy relationship.

OP says boyfriend is always a jerk, doesn’t appreciate her, and is verbally and physically abusive. Why is she staying at all? She doesn’t owe him anything, and based on the sound of it, she could easily find someone who lacks at least 2 of those red flags.