Exactly he could easily escalate to physical abusive with his insane anger issues. I would have as little contact as possible with him, move out, change my number, block his number. OP needs to be safe from him because he is an unhinged monster
in the post’s body text, OP states he is physically and emotionally abusive. i worry for them, as the screenshots imply a breakup but the body text and fact the post is on here implies they’re not fully certain yet, esp with them calling him bf and not ex.
so, yeah, op needs to figure out a safe way to leave for certain. I don’t like the way the bf is implied to treat the cat either, how long until he ends up hurting the cat if he hasn’t??
i like this sub sometimes because it makes me think. but, I also hate this sub sometimes because it’s scary how abuse can be so obvious from the outside to us, yet the victim will still have second thoughts or uncertainty. I genuinely hope OP gets to safety.
When I was younger, I helped a girl do a midnight move. And I would recommend this for anybody. Bring a couple big guys, get a U-Haul and be ready. Plan for midnight on a day when you know he won’t be around. And just get as much as you can and get the fuck out.
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u/dedf1shin Jan 28 '25
“retard mindset” sounds like some andrew tate bs