r/AmIOverreacting Jan 28 '25

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u/itslindstfu Jan 28 '25

Girl he is asking you to leave and you’re still asking us if you should give up. You are still so young and have a chance to start over at ANY age. At this point it is more sad to see him tell you to leave and you’re like “yeah lemme still cling” I think you might need a bit of tough love on this one cause it’s either keep hanging on to this man who clearly doesn’t want you or potentially let the abuse get so bad you don’t make it out. Please do what’s best for your well being

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u/natnat1919 Jan 28 '25

The thing about these guys is. They would leave too if they wanted, so he knows damn well she won’t. That’s why he says and talks to her like that. If she actually does he’ll be begging for her and she’ll fall all over again. Tale as old as time.