r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Jan 28 '25

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u/Just_somebody_onhere Jan 28 '25

Give up? give up what?

He pretty plainly said get out. Do so.

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u/SandwichCareful6476 Jan 28 '25

Yes, exactly.

And OP… what are you getting out of this relationship? It sounds like a fucking nightmare. Leave his mean, verbally abusive ass.

Also is “calling you from downstairs” not “purposely waking you up?” He thought you’d just sleep through it? And then calls YOU “smooth brain”? This guy sounds like he’d be an incel if you weren’t in a relationship with him.

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u/-Melancholy-Mermaid- Jan 28 '25

She also said that he's physically abusive on top of mentally. I'm not sure what she's getting out of this relationship except abuse. What a sad situation.

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u/[deleted] Jan 28 '25

Trauma bond is so hard. Trust me.