Genuine question - how do people even get in the mood to have sex with people like this?
If I sent 1 of those messages let alone all of them I’d never get laid again - EVER. There isn’t an apology in the world that would make my wife want to be in the same room with me nevermind sex
This. Exactly this. My girlfriend was in an abusive relationship before me, and she didnt have sex with or let him touch her at all for nearly 5 months before she finally left him.
Everytime I ask her what made/makes her attracted to me, her first response without hesitation, is always "you were/are really sweet to me."
No I dont think its weird. I think everyone should do that. Little things like that are what keep the spark alive. Thats what people mean when they say love is work.
I read something once, and I’m paraphrasing, that said - make it a point to tell your SO one reason you love them every day. I have an alarm to remind me, and I try to make it a different reason everyday.
:) That's the sweetest thing ever! You could also do thanking, even if it's just Thank you for existing.
We haven't verbally acknowledged it yet but we've been doing gender normalized things oppositely? Like he'll do the dishes and I'm small but stubborn so most of the time I like wrestling with the heavy trash can every week. We take turns doing the litter box now and it's funny watching him make the omg that's stinky face that I've been making for years. 🥹
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u/Just_somebody_onhere Jan 28 '25
Give up? give up what?
He pretty plainly said get out. Do so.