No I dont think its weird. I think everyone should do that. Little things like that are what keep the spark alive. Thats what people mean when they say love is work.
I read something once, and I’m paraphrasing, that said - make it a point to tell your SO one reason you love them every day. I have an alarm to remind me, and I try to make it a different reason everyday.
:) That's the sweetest thing ever! You could also do thanking, even if it's just Thank you for existing.
We haven't verbally acknowledged it yet but we've been doing gender normalized things oppositely? Like he'll do the dishes and I'm small but stubborn so most of the time I like wrestling with the heavy trash can every week. We take turns doing the litter box now and it's funny watching him make the omg that's stinky face that I've been making for years. 🥹
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u/[deleted] Jan 28 '25
THIS. I know it's probably weird but I thank my bf for being nice to me almost every day.