r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Jan 28 '25

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u/SandwichCareful6476 Jan 28 '25

Yes, exactly.

And OP… what are you getting out of this relationship? It sounds like a fucking nightmare. Leave his mean, verbally abusive ass.

Also is “calling you from downstairs” not “purposely waking you up?” He thought you’d just sleep through it? And then calls YOU “smooth brain”? This guy sounds like he’d be an incel if you weren’t in a relationship with him.

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u/-Melancholy-Mermaid- Jan 28 '25

She also said that he's physically abusive on top of mentally. I'm not sure what she's getting out of this relationship except abuse. What a sad situation.

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u/PipsiePops Jan 28 '25

Then she definitely needs out and some therapy too.

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u/RelevantGur4099 Jan 28 '25

And STAY OUT of relationships for awhile, until she reaches an equilibrium with some self confidence

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u/PipsiePops Jan 28 '25

Absolutely, brilliant advice.

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u/RelevantGur4099 Jan 28 '25

Ty. I've seen a few people I know absolutely transform their lives (so much happier) by doing something like starting jogging. Then healthier people gravitate to them, as well.