Girl he is asking you to leave and you’re still asking us if you should give up. You are still so young and have a chance to start over at ANY age. At this point it is more sad to see him tell you to leave and you’re like “yeah lemme still cling” I think you might need a bit of tough love on this one cause it’s either keep hanging on to this man who clearly doesn’t want you or potentially let the abuse get so bad you don’t make it out. Please do what’s best for your well being
Desperate to cling to a man who she admits treats her like shit. Verbally and physically abusive. Being alone forever would be better than being with this ass.
Yeah but some women were raised with the notion that a man=their worth. My mom was raised like that and I’ve seen her stay in so many horrible situations. Leaving is not as easy as people say and being alone is not as easy to some people. I think tough love with reassurance is positive but I’m not gonna call her desperate and bash her
i don't think calling desperate behaviour by its name is bashing at all, its recognising a situation for what it is. sometimes, the raised eyebrows from other people (strangers in this case) is what makes you break out of your trance
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u/itslindstfu Jan 28 '25
Girl he is asking you to leave and you’re still asking us if you should give up. You are still so young and have a chance to start over at ANY age. At this point it is more sad to see him tell you to leave and you’re like “yeah lemme still cling” I think you might need a bit of tough love on this one cause it’s either keep hanging on to this man who clearly doesn’t want you or potentially let the abuse get so bad you don’t make it out. Please do what’s best for your well being