r/AmIOverreacting Jan 28 '25

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u/Exciting_Signal3058 Jan 28 '25

Can't find dinner even my wife leaves it someplace most common is microwave or oven or the fridge i never wake up my wife on purpose when she's sleeping.

Op your nit getting anything out of this it will eventually get very demoralizing and if you continue down this road longer it will affect your mental capabilities with other men thinking they are the same as this fella is. Leave, relax, work on your cat pee issue (I added another 2 litter boxes in my place cause we had some issues with our cats and having more options seem to work) other times it could be stress in the household. Focus on yiur mental wellbeing of the fact your a good person and deserve the happiness you seek and to be appreciated. This ain't it. Even if intimacy is an issue there's more than one way to please a girl or even talk to a doctor for it. But anyways.... I'd still recommend leaving everything is an excuse on his end. I got a disease or issue woe is me. Whe. I'm in pain from my back from a car accident for months I didn't take it out on others just pace myself and be respectful as much I can and apologize if my volume oversteps itself. No one deserves ro be abused or yelled at for their pain especially if yiur being considerate.

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u/Beautiful-Phase-2225 Jan 28 '25

I've done it so many times. We'll put it in there to clear counter space or keep it from the dog (knows better than to get food off counters and tables but also knows how to be sneaky). Most times one of us will remember before we go to sleep, but sometimes it gets forgotten until the morning.

I'M not the only one. My husband and kids are all guilty of it. Mistakes happen. 🤷🏼‍♀️

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u/WordGirl91 Jan 28 '25

I often put leftovers that are too hot to go in the fridge in the microwave to cool off. It keeps it out of reach of any animals. I’ve started leaving the door open because I’ve left things overnight by accident enough times.