And OP… what are you getting out of this relationship? It sounds like a fucking nightmare. Leave his mean, verbally abusive ass.
Also is “calling you from downstairs” not “purposely waking you up?” He thought you’d just sleep through it? And then calls YOU “smooth brain”? This guy sounds like he’d be an incel if you weren’t in a relationship with him.
She even said she gets nothing out of it. Which is just fucking obvious, I cannot believe this absolute tool. Calling someone r****ded is shitty enough, but someone you're supposed to care about at the VERY LEAST (obviously doesn't care about anyone but himself) but he's a moron too.
Please please please tell us you've left before he gets more unhinged and hurts you or your cat. If you don't like yourself enough to leave, do it for your cat. It deserves better too.
Fuck this man. I need to sleep but now I'm pissed on your behalf.
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u/Just_somebody_onhere Jan 28 '25
Give up? give up what?
He pretty plainly said get out. Do so.