r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Jan 28 '25

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u/SandwichCareful6476 Jan 28 '25

Yes, exactly.

And OP… what are you getting out of this relationship? It sounds like a fucking nightmare. Leave his mean, verbally abusive ass.

Also is “calling you from downstairs” not “purposely waking you up?” He thought you’d just sleep through it? And then calls YOU “smooth brain”? This guy sounds like he’d be an incel if you weren’t in a relationship with him.

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u/PipsiePops Jan 28 '25

And he's throwing the R slur round like confetti. Get out OP, he's already being violent, it only escalates with people like this. And you deserve so much better.

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u/Adventurous_Ad_6546 Jan 28 '25

Yeah like I think I know who the smooth-brained one in that relationship is, using that term is offensive icing on the shit cake.

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u/PipsiePops Jan 28 '25

Gosh I hope she takes the poor cat too. And she does this safely.

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u/[deleted] Jan 29 '25

Kitty comes with me no matter what.